you think that you are over this guy and that he cannot do anything more to upset you but then he does this, and everyone is talking about it.
2007-09-07 05:25:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could keep telling yourself how childish he is and ignore him. You could go up and say hi and be perfectly friendly to him and his new girlfriend (that might spoil his little game!). Or you could be really naughty and play his game. Be seen cuddling up to a male friend. It all depends on how you want to deal with the situation. I guess it would be best to just ignore it and get on with your life. If he were really over you he wouldn't be playing these emotional games so just remind yourself of that. If you dumped him he's probably pleased anyone else wants him; he's just looking for someone to massage his bruised ego. If he dumped you and is showing off this girl he's just a nasty waste of your time and maybe the new girl's too. If you are over him or wanting to get over him you won't bother taking any notice of him. When you can manage a kind hello now and again you know you don't care anymore.
2007-09-07 05:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by Bernice 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The creepiest thing I had an ex girlfriend do was to make friends with my current girlfriend. I was kind of showing off that I'd moved on, and my ex walked up all nice and was gushing over my new gf. Then they started hanging out. Ugh. There are just some things you want the door to stay closed on.
2007-09-07 05:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sam,you do absolutely nothing if he's flaunting it he's saying in his own way either I'M OUT FOR REVENGE or I STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR YOU make him see that you're not going to be lowered by his actions and that you're over him unless you're not but don't let him know that unless he comes back to you and actually opens up and tells you his motives.
2007-09-07 05:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by Shannon B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If everyone is talking about it, they must not have anything going on in their lives. Ask yourself if you are really upset about him having another relationship or if you are really upset about the fact of how humiliating it is that people are talking about it. Are people not allowed to move on after the end of a relationship? That's what I would say to other people...they need to grow up because it sounds like they are doing the damage, not so much him.
2007-09-07 05:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you do is go up to the couple and congradulate them on their unity. to show hostility will just play into his master plan of wanting to make you jealous.if he's so intent on hurting you then he's not really worth chasing after or worrying about anyway..and f*** what everybody else thinks..there's no way they can know how you feel.
2007-09-07 05:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by ..((~babarskiz~)).. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You smile, say hello to him.
Smile , say hello to her,"It's nice to meet you."
If you live in the Southern States, you would then turn to your best friend and say" She's such a pretty little thing, Bless Her Heart..."
2007-09-07 05:34:33 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't ever make him think that you are jealous... that what he want i would still so speak 2 him and ask like nothing ever happened he will never expect that he thinks he's making you look like a fool when he is just playing his self
2007-09-07 06:35:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
like the other person said he is an ex for a reason..like the old saying says, "kill them with kindness." don't worry about them..don't play into his stupid game by allowing yourself to get mad..that's what he wants to happen
2007-09-07 05:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by Kita 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just pay some hunk to walk past him with you OR have one of you're friends call you while your next to him and be like..."hello,Dylan? yes, i will be at your yact party tonight but first i have to call Sophia and cancel my spa appointment... what?!...of course i got the gucci purse, Cashmere paid for it after our dinner date at French Laundry. ok see you tonight."
2007-09-07 05:38:28 · answer #9 · answered by PhilJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to look at the two of them.and try to hold my heart in place and keep it from hitting the floor :( I've been in this situation a couple of times myself.
2007-09-07 05:32:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋