I have had many recurring dreams that my Fiance is cheating on me, What does this mean and why do I dream it?

Question

In my dream I usually walk in on the act of him cheating or I just find out about it somehow. When this happens I am usually willing to try to make up or work past it. My fiance tells me no; that he doesn't feel its worth it, that he no longer wants to marry me or be with me.
I don't think he is cheating on me in real life. In fact we are very much in love and very happy. So why am i having these dreams?

Answer 1

Sounds like you have some insecurities in your relationship. I would spend some time trying to resolve this as marriage is a huge step and you want to go into it with a clear mind.

Answer 2

According to Dreamcrowd:

To dream that you are cheating on your spouse, mate, fianc?, or significant other, suggests feelings of self-guilt and self-betrayal. You may have compromised your beliefs or integrity and/or wasting your energy and time on fruitless endeavors. Alternatively, it reflects the intensity of your sexual passion and exploring areas of your sexuality. It is actually a reaffirmation of your commitment. Furthermore, it is not uncommon for people approaching a wedding to have dreams about erotic experiences with partners other than their intended spouses. Most likely, such dreams represent the newness of your sexual passion. It may also signify anxieties of changing your identity - that of a spouse. To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem. The dream could also indicate that you are unconsciously picking up hints and cues that your significant other is not being completely truth or is not fully committed in the relationship. To dream that you are cheating at a game, suggests that you are not being honest with yourself.


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Answer 3

You have some fear of losing. Projecting him cheating on you could just symbolize the fear of losing him.

If in reality, you do not have any suspusicion of him cheating you or you trust yourself and him very much. That may only suggests that you have his fear of losing him one day. In other words, you need him very much to the point that you feel insecure. Because you are too dependent in some way. He becomes the only hope in you. Projecting him to cheat on you is to foresee what is worst in your subconscious mind that you do not want that mind.

Our subconscious minds sometimes are funny, they tend to predict something that may or may not happen and translate in dream. In your case, you probably have anxiety about the trust and have fear of losing.

Answer 4

well id say your not happy or youve got doubts its either that youve been in situations with him that have got you concerned or that your not ready for marriage and your mentally trying to find a way out my guess is that you sit down make a list of concerns and wants and dreams and see if he adds up completely the worst thing a person can do is compromise their wants to be married to someone thats comes close but isnt really what they want

Answer 5

maybe you subconsciously think he is cheating you? Not cheating on you, but cheating you- out of something, or an experience, or emotions, affection, social events, something? Good Luck and try telling him how you feel and your dreams

Answer 6

I think either you doubt your feelings for him, or maybe you have some insecurities in the relationship. Maybe it's a warning of something that might happen in the future. I don't know.

Answer 7

Jitters to be married. Get the wedding license and marriage done asap.

Answer 8

the honey moon is over . . . clean the kitchen, take out the garbage, and read boring books on how to be interesting.