If he does, how do you know you found him? Where do you look? Is this even possible?
2007-09-07 05:01:21 · 37 answers · asked by .:*eri*licious*:. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes! and I married him, it took a long time to find him, but I did and now I am going to keep him. I know I found him because the deep love and compassion we have for each other and I have been married to him for 10 great years! anything is possible, you need to take your time and be very picky, don't except anything less than what you are looking for, and be open minded to what they like and want out of life.
Don't look to hard you may pass him up, and don't forget to be patient, some guys can be miss leading so get to know them and again be patient, you'll know him when you meet him. Good luck. notice how I say be patient, that is key!
2007-09-07 05:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by robink71668 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the "perfect man" exists, when you find him, he will already be married to the "perfect woman".
Seriously, all men have some imperfections; you have to find the one whose shortcommings are something you can live with, because, face it, he isn't going to make any major lifestyle changes for you. Try not to be overly picky, or you'll become an old maid while looking for the 1 guy on the planet that meets all your qualifications! This is a situation where you really have to pick and chose your battles; what problems in a man can you deal with or ignore, and what ones are a show-stopper. Think about the amount of time a woman might spend to pick out the perfect car, it's amazing how little time she will spend to pick out a husband, considering that it is a lot easier to get rid of a car you hate, than a husband you hate! PS I wish you good luck in your search!
2007-09-07 05:22:16 · answer #2 · answered by Flying Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible. How do you find him? No one knows. I found my mine at lunch in high school. Where do you look? Actually not looking helps because when you look you are only concentrated on that. Never seems to work out then. So you are saying what do I do if I can't look? Wait, he will come some time. When the time is right and not anytime sooner.
The way you will know that he is the one. It is that he is not perfect but perfect for you and you don't want to change him.
2007-09-07 05:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by Random 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The perfect man may not exist but it is possible to love an imperfect man perfectly. Good luck.
2007-09-07 05:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by Princess J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cliche but nobody's perfect. seriously.
i just got married and he is perfect for me in so many ways, we think alike, think the same things are funny, and get along great. but there are some small things that are not perfect. you have to focus on what is important.
and we worked together 7 years ago and both had significant other and then just met up again last year and realized how good we were together
2007-09-07 05:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by just_a_hick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i found my perfect man so i can say, yes the perfect man for you does exist. and sometimes you dont have to look... it just happens...
i went to elementary school with my current boyfriend but throughout high school & everything we never hung out then he left for the army, when he was home on leave on time we saw eachother at 711 & thats all it took. lol that might sound weird but thats exactly how it happened.. its like when we saw eachother that night, we connected.
2007-09-07 05:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband isn't a perfect man per say, but he is perfect for me. He's loving, honorable, funny and hardworking. Everyone has problems of course, but I do believe that you can find the perfect person for you.
2007-09-07 05:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no such thing as the perfect man , or woman , your relationships are purely potential , when you both are able to stand one another enough to work together , this is the perfect man / woman , if you expect more expect to be single for a long time.. no ones perfect , thats the truth!
2007-09-07 05:07:56 · answer #8 · answered by DSV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting question. Yes, I think so. I married him. I love him with all of my heart.
Because life is not perfect neither will be the man or love or anything. That's ok because it helps to make us stronger and to grow. Growing is better than dying. I'm thinking that if you aren't growing then you are likely dying.
2007-09-07 05:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by Unsub29 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I married him! You won't be able to find him if you look. He'll come around. I knew he was perfect for me because I went crazy when he wasn't around, and we've dated for 6 years and have been married for 2 and I still get butterflies in my stomach before he walks in the door. That's perfection.
2007-09-07 05:09:26 · answer #10 · answered by Farmwife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋