I met a guy 3 years ago and we have kepted in touch all this time, he wanted to date me but I decided not to B/C his baby mama wanted a second chance @ there relationship and I let him go so he could @ least say he did try, well now its done and there not 2gether, just these past few days we have been talking and I believe that this time we actually have a chance, he wanted me to sleep over his house was willing 2 pick me up but it was late so nothing happen. But he hasn't made any efforts 2 see me??? could he be having cold feet or just lost interest? or not ready? Yesterday he was suppose 2 come over 2 see me but didn't and then this morning sent me a message that he was with his cuz helping him w/a problem he has. I'm confused, maybe I shouldn't date him.
2007-09-07 04:53:45 · 10 answers · asked by Wendy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
people we haven't had sex! He just wrote me this--->My heart is telling me to give you my all, but my mind is telling me that i dont have much time between my kids and school. Of course i can squeeze you in, but is that what you want?
2007-09-07 05:10:18 · update #1
I f he hasn't made a effort he's just interested.
2007-09-07 04:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by tdenisem01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt he was with his cuz - more like his "baby's mama".
You don't know for a fact that they're not together, either. All you have is his say-so, and he doesn't sound like he's being straight with you. The short-notice cancellations and the vague excuses all point to his treating you as nothing more than a girl on the side.
There's nothing in this but frustration and disappointment for you. You can write to him if you really want to, but this guy is nothing but bad news for a serious relationship, and don't you think you deserve better?
2007-09-07 05:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by Bill F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should start by asking whether you want to date a guy who has already gotten one woman pregnant, and then left her. Are you OK with that happening to you?
A lot of women say 'he'll be different with me', but that's just not true. This guy isn't going to "change" for you, and you aren't going to be able to change him.
He's going to act with you just like he did with his last g/f. I'd say stay away.
2007-09-07 04:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by Michael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm sounds suspect to me. Don't give it up too fast. see where he's coming from. Sounds like he wants just sex to me..but let his actions speak louder than his words. you've already been down the road with him once before... make sure he's ready to take another path with you.
2007-09-07 05:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by KewlAsCanBe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He offered to pick you up and you denied him. He took this personally. He took it as if you weren't interested enough even though it was late. If you want him. You really have to go out of your way to get his attention.
2007-09-07 05:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by Keith D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girl Don't date him. two words baby mama. And you know that usually means drama.
2007-09-07 05:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by tootsiebrownie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never read past "his baby mama"
nope. denied. move on to somebody else. sounds like trouble up in here
2007-09-07 04:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have lost interest move on
2007-09-07 04:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by Murders Princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's looking for sex, and nothing else...
2007-09-07 04:59:53 · answer #9 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"baby mama" lmao...
2007-09-07 05:00:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋