I know some of my lady and men friends have to be in a relationship they don't want to be alone... why is that
I'm not afraid, it helps me to get to know myself and what I really want and don't want and whats healthy for me and my child
2007-09-07 04:44:06 · 16 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fear of being alone is pretty common. It has a lot to do with society. There is a lot of pressure to be in couples, and they do not feel "normal" if they are alone.
As well, for some people it becomes a habit to be with someone, no matter what. This is because they have not taken the time to be alone and comfortable. They feel a sense of panic as they do not believe they can survive without a partner. If they could force themselves to be alone and explore their lives as a single, they would find it actually is not a bad way to live. It would also give them a real sense of who they are, and would help them to ultimately attract the right partner because they feel positive about themselves.
2007-09-07 05:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watching a scary movie and being home alone at night. I wouldn't want to watch a scary movie during the storm. Hang up phone calls probably wouldn't scare me, though even if I was home alone. BQ: Any movie that has a lot of blood and killing and creep music. And have something pop up in front or back you. And that is suppose to scare you. I don't like scare movies.
2016-04-03 08:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i usually go for awhile out of a relationship, to the point where i'm crazy to get back into one, then go full steam in the relationship, crazy in love, then burnout/overkill, go running for the exit because i need that time alone to develope. and so on. the plus side is that i am always one way or the other and never get to a middle ground, therefore always going from one extreme to another and making life interesting. the negative side is that i've lost a few good ones, and now as i'm getting older, its more painful in the transition and good ones are harder to come by. hopefully next time i'll just marry, settle, find the middle ground , and be content
2007-09-07 04:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by steveo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not afraid to be alone but I am afraid that I will never find someone that make me feel loved and happy as time goes by. I want to be in a relationship but you have to be careful because people think they fall in love and it becomes a disaster in the end.
2007-09-07 04:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jamonican 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not that im afraid of being alone... i just dont like it. Im not the sort of girl that has to be with someone ALWAYS, god thats exhausting. I really appreciate my alone time... but its hard to be alone once you have been with someone. I absolutely dread night time... because it breaks my heart to sleep alone. By all means, im not a skank. i havent shared a bed since my sister came to visit, whatever number of weeks ago. I sleep by myself.. i just... dont like it. It just sucks to have nightmares, and wake up and turn and put your arm around someone you love... and now.. i wake up.. and take my room mates dog for a walk, or read until i fall asleep again.
Its just adjusting to changes.
2007-09-07 04:52:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there will be times where you will wonder , different people are build differently and react differently at different stages in life , heaven knows you to will get times where you will wish for intimate love , and if it exists , but chances are you like most who dont bother , have been burnt bad , and the fire doesnt look to tempting right now , but eventually you will put another log on , and see if you can get hurt again , or make a go of it .
2007-09-07 04:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by DSV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miss curious, When you accept Jesus into you heart you never have to be alone ! His holy spirit comes into your being and will never leave you ! So no I am never alone !
2007-09-07 04:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey,
I dont think they are afrid of being alone its more like we get use to someone and so it hard to stay away from them when we have invested so much time and energy...
as for me i am not afrid to be alone.. I think its best...you learn to love yourself all over again and i think you accomplish so much more....i stayed alone for two years without sex or dating i just didnt want to get invlove with anyone ....and in that time i did so much for me...and i was so content with myself...and i met someone and we have been together now two years...we have our problems..i do love him but part of me is struggling to believe his sincerertiy to me...i have myself together have my head on my shoulders and know what i am about..i do not pretend to be someone i am not and do not try to be like other females out here..and i do beleive that when a man loves a woman he puts her first and think the world of her...
if my relatonship were to end..part of me would be happy..atleast i know that i dont have to focus on an additional person or feel insecure in my realtionship or have a man lie to me or betray me with other women....and
a part of me would be sad beacuse i care for that person and i love that person and it will hurt to know that i gave it my all..
but all in all i wouldnt mind being by myself...........:)
2007-09-07 05:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that people that cant be Alon are not stable and when they are not stable it makes it real heard for there friends to move on with there life's so there is really no solution..
2007-09-07 04:52:59 · answer #9 · answered by jessica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't mind a little alone time, but nothing more than 2 months.
2007-09-07 04:50:32 · answer #10 · answered by MONICA R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋