In my other question I posted that im in love with a Thai girl...sadly already I think it is a one way relationship she has only ever phoned me once (when she was drunk at the bar) I try to phone her most days...but she hardly ever picks up her mobile now...she also does not txt me anymore, and she keeps on saying stuff like up to you and ill phone you but she never does and worst she hang up on me earlier today 3 times then let me speak to her after??
It's almost like her sisters are running the show for her.
Deep down I think it will end in pain but ....if you don't try you don't get anything and she is soo beautiful. Perhaps I phone her too much but i cant love her part-time :O(
Anyone got anytips? is this a lost cause? oh and she dont speak english much haha crazy I know
2007-09-07 03:42:25 · 11 answers · asked by Bored Paul 1 in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Thailand
Just wondered are there my IT support jobs out there in Thailand I could do with a break from the UK i think. Bit random question I know
2007-09-07 03:52:46 · update #1
I agree with you guys but its very hard to go from something to nothing...trust me there aren't any women in my town! only stuck up ones :O(
2007-09-07 04:38:45 · update #2
not good news, but you know that - if she is beautiful, as you say, she has plenty of customers - if you are calling, well, that kind of puts off the other customers.. and if she is hanging up quickly, it is probably because she is with a customer.
Hey, I'm a romantic - visit her your next trip too - - some romances last a lifetime, some ten years - some just for a night.. be glad you get a night if shes not busy..
2007-09-07 04:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, you do have a lost cause. Best to forget her and find a decent one next time you are in Thailand. Since she is not interested in you, just let that be. There will be many beautiful Thai ladies in Thailand, and not working as a bargirl too.
If you like, run through some of the Thai dating sites and you will find quite a few pretty ladies, and they know English or some English, much better than none. So, you need not be too broken hearted.
Just google for the Thai dating sites.
2007-09-07 05:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by peanutz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to crush your dreams but I think it's a total lost cause. I spent a bit of time in Thailand recently, and one thing I learnt is that Thai bar girls generally love every western guy they see. As you aren't there, neither is your money and she has probably found a new suspect. Sorry for generalising, but I have never seen anything like my experience in Thailand!
2007-09-07 03:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by Helena T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are funny and un-understandable in the way that you still keep trying!
There are tons of forums and message boards about this very issue out there.
A very good author who really understands what he is writing about Thai girls and such is stickman @
www.stickmanbangkok.com
You don't have to think deep down, it surely will end in pain.
Question, a most important one: Where did you meet her?
The answer can only be "idiot, don't waste your life" when you met her in a bar or such.
To find a truly good Thai women is not less difficult than anywhere in the world.
Haven't heard of a successful relation, not of one, of a bar girl with a foreigner.
Delete her phone number and her out of your brain, you safe yourself a lot of future hassles.
JoeMessiah.com
2007-09-07 05:39:59 · answer #4 · answered by absolutelyBangkok.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT Forrest!!
the tips:
..if u marry a prostitute
1.-but well get a lot of condoms...
2.-have a good health insurance..-herpes, HIV, family syndrome down, syphilis, etc
3.-be serious with the people everybody will laughing on u face because u girl is a prostitute
4.-be smart with u family think before u speak...u wife is a prostitute u sis in law another prostitute u dont even know who is her father or her mother in law maybe one is a pin and u mom in law a old prosti working both in chinatown
5.- no matter what dont ask to your girl how many men had or have in her life. (uffff u r good in math??)
6.- be happy and have fun
2007-09-07 08:31:55 · answer #5 · answered by Ronald 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it, but you have a lost cause there. Don't give up altogether though, because there are many other women, in Thailand and elsewhere who would love to be your friends.
2007-09-07 04:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by luosechi 駱士基 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not interested and she sounds like a game player. Drop her like a cheap suit and move on the next one. There are too many women out there dude.
2007-09-07 03:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by slickric 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No offence, but beauty isn't the only reason to love and person. Her personality sounds a little mean.
2007-09-07 03:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by kytigirl200 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's not your girlfriend mate. You know exactly what she does for a living, don't you?
2007-09-07 03:49:21 · answer #9 · answered by Goose 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i agree with spanky and peanutz entirely.....get out there again and relax this time
2007-09-07 07:01:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋