my stepdaughter(16) went to FINISH OUT HER 10TH GRADE YEAR in arizona.
AFTER MONTHS OF BEGGING US WE LET HER GO after 6 months of being there. my husband is slapped with costudy papers claiming that my husband and i plus my daughter abuse her
why would they make up lies about us.
we are so hurt over this.
we heard that grandpa gaves her a new 300 dollar phone and promises her she will get a new truck next year.
2007-09-07 00:50:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well unfortunately for your daughter, she has been tricked. They have been turning things over and over in her mind, so that she thinks that they love her more because they buy her things. I'm so sorry. I know this is hard. But the court will not let your daughter go just because your in laws are buying her things. If your confident in the way you brought her up, then you have nothing to worry about. Just because famous people sue each other for custody, it gives regular people ideas that it is possible for them to do also on a whim. Custody battles are very very hard to win, unless you have hard evidence that the child is being abused. Unless the police or social services have been involved before, or if there has been any kind of report set up against you, they wont take your child away. BUT they will set up an investigation. Don't try to hide anything be honest, no one expects parents to be perfect just to love and care for their child.
My prayers are with you, just stay strong and trust in GOD!
2007-09-07 01:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by Chrystal 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Teens aren't stupid, and a 16yr old who is in this situation isn't going to have the power to do what's right.
You aren't clear as to who wants custody, mom or the grandparents. The grandparents have no chance to get custody. Mom is another story and frankly this sounds alittle too contrived.
Here's the deal. In two years, she can do what she wants anyway. You are going to have to decide if this is worth fighting about. Get a lawyer.
2007-09-07 08:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bring your daughter home and show the inlaws that you aren't playing their games.
2007-09-07 08:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY AWAY FROM THEM.
2007-09-07 07:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋