from dating, and my life situation now that as long as a man treats me reasonable and pay attention to me it will make me happier. I've dated young, old, charming, rich, good looking, thin, fit, chubby, kind, mean etc. all types of guys, and as i get older (not close to middle age yet) i feel that i would prefer to be with an older wealthy man for companionship and security. I've dated and i do not have the ability to fall in love and find that all men are pretty much the same within the norm. I can not fall in love in the hollywood sense but can care for someone. and i find charming young guys to be the least stable. If i learn from experience that that would make me happy, does that make me a gold digger? or a gold digger that knows this will make her happy? or is it just a preference.
2007-09-06 22:11:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
experience is the best teacher..
you have gone through so much in search of Mr, right but none so far fit into your description...
the fact that now you want an older, wealthier guy does not mean you are a gold digger, it simply means life has taught you its lesson and all you want is to chill and be happy..
we all got our preferences, who would not want a weathy partner be it men or women?
you are very right about men, old is gold, older men have seen life the way you have and have had enough of it, they now want ot settle and will settle very well with whomever they will fall in love with. on the other hand younger men still want to bounce with every skirt that passes them.
live your life and don't let people's comments about you stop you from being happy.. they do not know what youhave gone through, and even if they knew they have no right to butt into your life after all they don't even care what you eat today..
follow your dreams and accomplish them without thinking that others might think ill of you....
cheers
2007-09-06 22:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by baby gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear pamma,
You are quite experienced....
Congratulations that you learnt from experience, so many dont, and now you know exactly what you want.
Actually after enjoying everything you are satieted and now are looking for something everybody actually wants but a few realise. Security, companionship, comfort and attention.
Well this is a prefrence.
I will also suggest that you should be more comfortable with yourself and your decsions. You have always been confident in most decsions that you have taken ..then why such self doubt on this one..... some one told you that you are a golddigger or you yourself doubted your intentions or you are afraid of what the society will think and say about you?
You are on the right track... so don have any doubts..Once again its prefrence .. go ahead... and send me an Invitation to your Marriage soon.
All the best
2007-09-07 05:39:39 · answer #2 · answered by Ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a little bit of all I think.... and why should that be bad? it is just fact and truth. And if anything, you have just searched your soul and realized what you want most... but perhaps you shouldnt exclude the possibility to fall in love... you might just not have met the right one... even if you've dated all kinds of men. I've known one person for whom it took ages to fall in love... I think she was 47 before it happened... so don't exclude a thing.
2007-09-07 05:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are saying experience is the best teacher for you and what you stated is your preference then l would say go girl!
If you find your man make him happy too, the old man will need your emotional support
2007-09-07 05:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by judie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep you're a gold digger, you want a rich old guy who'll pass away long before you do so you can inherit all his money. At least you're honest about it. Can you clean and cook too?
2007-09-07 05:20:02 · answer #5 · answered by dweebken 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it just makes you shallow but thats ok because most of society is shallow so congratulations your the same as most people
2007-09-07 05:15:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
experience maybe taught someone but it also a new thing to grow bigger
2007-09-07 05:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by vcthegothic a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋