well..i just got rejected by a girl and what makes me sad is she doesn't tell me but she confide in her friends and this secret was revealed to me by one of her friends. What should i do? I mean i'm feeling really sad now and abit hurt because the girl is abit shallow as in she only go for looks..Each time i try to engage in a relationship..it would be a rejection...what are the methods and how can i pick the right girl to be my girlfriend? pls teach me thanks
2007-09-06 22:11:19 · 12 answers · asked by Nickel Hair 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well..i just gt rejected by a girl & what makes me sad is she doesn't tell me but she confide in her friends & this secret was revealed to me by one of her friends. What should i do? i'm feeling really sad now & hurt because the girl is shallow as in she only go for looks..Each time i try to engage in a relationship..it would be a rejection...what are the methods & how can i pick the right girl to be my girlfriend? pls teach me thanks
well..this girl has made a real big impact in me as a person, etching her deeply in my heart and she is also the one i seriously liked the most but her method of rejection seriously sadden me...at least if she tells me in person perhaps i won't feel so sad and i would wish her all the best in the future and tell her that "i'm glad she is a honest person" so i can at least leave her a impression of me as a classy person for the last time probably
Anyway..i'm really sad now and need help to get over it and please tell me how can i find the right girl
2007-09-06 22:30:10 · update #1
well..this girl has made a real big impact in me as a person, etching her deeply in my heart and she is also the one i seriously liked the most but her method of rejection seriously sadden me...at least if she tells me in person perhaps i won't feel so sad and i would wish her all the best in the future and tell her that "i'm glad she is a honest person" so i can at least leave her a impression of me as a classy person for the last time probably
Anyway..i'm really sad now and need help to get over it and please tell me how can i find the right girl
2007-09-06 22:30:46 · update #2
is it necessary to have a gf .. are u that desperate and incomplete that u need som1 to complete you.... wait do not find no 1
if theres a companion for u she will find u .. and its gud tht that girl left u and u came to no it frm her frnds coz if forcefully she engaged in a relationship .. it wuld hv been harder for u to bear the pain... and if she goes for luks yr a lucky guy u didnt get her .... u r seriously lucky ....................
2007-09-06 22:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by kritika 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hie Nickel. Well to me when that particular girl has rejected you, then it is something bad for her to do something like that. Well the tips of you to pick a girl are as per below
1. Don't go for a girl looks but go for the girls heart as when you are going for this then you would know the girl is she a bad or a good girl.
2, When you have like to a girl then it is goods for you not to engage so fast but try to survey on her like her behavior, attitude and also the way she mix with.
3. When in a relationship then it is good that you should have the six basics main steps and that is loyalty, trustworthy, honesty, patients, give and take and also understanding as when in both sides have this then for sure it will make the relationship to last long and strong.
Try this and hope it might help you...................
ALL THE BEST...................
2007-09-07 05:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling rejected really damages your self esteem. But you said that she is shallow so you need to ask yourself is it a great loss. The fact that she told her friends instead of you is a clear sign of her lack of maturity.
I can see you meeting a girl when you least expect it. Example, when at the supermarket. In the mean time, try meeting girls who are interested in the same things as you and have confidence in who you are.
2007-09-07 05:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Nickel, I had the same problem and all you can do is take the slap on the back of the neck and move on and ask another one out. I would ask out at least 2 girls per day and I kept at it until I got a date and ya know what it works. Keep your expectations at your standards not anyone Else's and remember women don't look like the playboy models you need someone that's REAL and not all made up so enjoy life and don't concentrate on the bad but the good instead,,Bob.
2007-09-07 05:21:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds real mature too. You have already told yourself your going to be rejected, so you will. Keep your head up, be yourself, find as much self confidence as you can, watch the guy you know who gets all the girls, follow some of his examples. Don't act desperate or clingy. Hope this helps.
2007-09-07 05:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by alwaysinhoth2o 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can try a different approach.
You can try going to the place that attracts the kind of woman you like.
If you like woman that like to party, are care free and easy, go to a club.
The sporty type, go to a gym.
If you like woman that may be more intellectual and the shy quiet type, go to a library.
If you like....well, you get the picture?
And don't take the examples literally. Not all people that hang out in libraries are the quiet, shy type!!!!
2007-09-07 05:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by Shmooks 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not much of a girl if she only goes for looks, i mean im sure you have reasons you like her and all, but a person who only goes for looks is not too smart to begin with because everyone knows looks fade away.
2007-09-07 05:22:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ugh tht sucks, i had the same situation a while ago, i got so depressed.
but i eventualy got over her and now i like sum1 else
it happens, u will get over it, esp if u are still young
as for finding the right girl... dont worry about it too much, just get to kno heaps of chicks and u probably will meet 1 who u like and who likes u bak
2007-09-07 05:17:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
moooove on.
And dont be desperate about finding a girl.
They can see right through you,you know. And then they will just ignore you.
Better if you get relaxed and be friends with girls first without bringing love between you. You will find her when you should .
2007-09-07 06:23:08 · answer #9 · answered by rumble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably trying too hard. just take it easy man. there are two things that help with women. One is confidence, the other is mystery. Know they like you and let THEM wonder if you like them man. just dont leave them hanging. let them in slowly. dont lie to them. womens intuition is a biotch. dont ask if they like you, ask when they would like you to pick them up, in fact man strike the word if from your vocabulary and replace it with when or where.
2007-09-07 05:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋