I ask this because my GF is extremely demanding, never satisfied, demanding, and I want to ask for the regular, most couples, sex session lenght in time.
2007-09-06 21:31:04 · 24 answers · asked by CALIENTE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sorry hun, but women are becoming more demanding. I love to take at least 2 to 3 hours, If I am satisfied once orally and then physically then I might calm down but I am a multi-girl, so I want 2 to 3x orgasms...almost every day. Take Care.-Rachel.
2007-09-06 21:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no 'regular' time for sex... although I would gather that sex, from foreplay to finish, for most couples is anywhere from 20 minutes to an hour.
A more important bit of advice for you is to talk to your girlfriend about your lovemaking. Ask how you can satisfy her-- maybe more foreplay, oral sex, exciting positions/locations, toys, etc. will be in order.
I find it interesting you want to "ask" your "extremely demanding" girlfriend for what I'm assuming is less sex time. Where are your feelings on the matter here? Just as important as you satisfying your girl is her satisfying YOU. So communicate what your needs are as well.
2007-09-06 21:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by adverseanatomy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no set time limit on how long sex should last. It last as long as possible until you are both satisfied. If she is complaining, then she is not getting pleasured and satisfied as you are. You see, women's sex drive works different than men's. It takes them a little longer for them to get turned on than we do.
So here is a rule of thumb. Work on your foreplay. Make the sex exciting for her and want to look forward to getting in bed with you. Use the 15 minute rule. That means 15 minutes of foreplay before you go to intercourse. There is an old saying, "Gotta heat the oven before sticking the meat in".
2007-09-06 21:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regular sex sessions usually last from half an hour to 2 or three hours. Quickies can be 15 mins. Don't rush it and you will find she responds in a better way and in the end it will be worth it
2007-09-14 20:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Studies show that the average man ejaculates in 15minutes. On a regular occasion I'd say 30 min is fair. However its really not about time, its about if both parties are pleased when the deed is done. I hate when I'm not in the mood but after getting aroused my partner would be finished right when I was just getting started. If you really care for this girl you would get in tune with her body and focus on making her pleased. A woman loves a man who'd rather please than be pleased.
2007-09-14 16:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by Lovely_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a bit like reading the newspaper. Sometimes you only have ten minutes on a bus on the way to work. But it is nice to set aside a couple of hours with the Sunday supplements.
2007-09-14 20:43:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends... I think that if your girl friend wants more sex then you should learn fore play.. I have fore play sometimes for an hour.... I can also remember having sex and for me it only lasted 5 minutes.... This means you and your girlfriend have to talk... Most men to not know where to touch a woman.. Ask..... Good luck Grant M in Pennsylvania
2007-09-14 15:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
However long feel right for you.
What it may be is thst she isn't 'coming', so try sorting her out first then gettin down to it because then she can't winge can she?
If you want to last longer try stopping and starting.
I'm a girl and i'm not demanding when my boyfs done hes done no questions, and i never ever 'come' so i think shes being a bit selfish actually.
2007-09-14 05:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no set limit. Are you having a fast food meal or a six course gourmet dinner? If you are having sex, enjoy the meal, stay a while, stop staring at the watch.
Or break up with her and find your two minute quickie elsewhere. That might be your hand.
2007-09-14 14:58:55 · answer #9 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you stimulate her mind enough beforehand, and tease her enough with your thoughts and movements, she will be fulfilled. When a woman isn't satisfied sexually, its rarely your physical performance. Tell her how beautiful she is, and how she's the only woman you can think about. Tell her some of those cheesy romance novel-like phrases, but sound genuine. She won't be able to keep her hands off of you, and she'll end up going quicker than you.
2007-09-06 21:46:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋