ok im confused im 16 and this is sad i never asked this question and never had it answered.... i was wondering if i had sex right i would need a condum but am i fully protected and also if i need a condum when having sex how do you have kids? Unprotected sex im guessing but are you taking a chance when you try to have kids... also when is it ok to have unprotected sex is it ok if you realy know people and 1 more question if both you and your partner dont have any stds can u still get one from each other
2007-09-06 16:25:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
the only full protection is no sex...if you want kids you should be in a committed relationship with someone you love or are married too and then it is perfectly normal not to use a condom..this is with the understanding neither of you are having sex with someone else..as for stds..if neither of you have one then you cannot get one from each other. i hope i answered your questions..i hope you can talk to a parent about these things.
2007-09-06 16:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by bailie28 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok So condoms are one way to help protect you from getting an STD from your parter, but definitely not 100%, you can even get an std from touching and oral sex.
Condoms are also a way to prevent pregnancy, again not a 100% thing because if and sperm at all gets in that area there is alway some chance of getting pregnant, but the risk is a lot lower if you use a condom.
If you're trying to get pregnant you wouldn't use a condom or any other kind of birth control. And if the person you're trying to have a baby with has any STDs, you will be in danger of contracting them.
You and your partner should both have been tested for any STDs and you should be able to reeeally trust them before you have unprotected sex in order to be safe
Hope this helps!
2007-09-06 16:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by c-lion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the only difference between protected and unprotected sex is that in protected sex or safe sex, you prevent the egg cells and the sperm cells from meeting and from becoming a baby. Usually a condom is used but there are other methods on how to prevent this like pills for the girls and stuff. Unprotected sex is just sex without the contraceptives. This creates opportunities for couples to have children. BUt at your age, i dont think you should already be thinking bout that. :) STD stands for Sexually Transmitted Disease. 1 of you has to have it before being able to transmit it. :) Lastly, safe sex isn't really 100% safe. There are time where contraceptives fail so do be very careful. :) just make sure you go have sex with someone you really know and trust or just have sex when your married :)
2007-09-06 16:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by Co T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, in order to get pregnant you have to have unprotected sex (without a condom). When you are ready to get pregnant you will be with a partner whom you trust. The two of you should be tested for any STD's prior to trying to concieve a baby. You should only have unprotected sex with a person who you know for absolute certain does not have an STD, and the only way you would know is if that person sees a doctor and gets tested. Birth control pills don't prevent pregnancy 100% and they don't prevent STD's at all, so don't go thinking that it is okay to have unprotected sex if you are on a birth control pill.
Lastly, if you and your partner have been tested and have no STD's than you can't get an STD from each other unless one of you has sex with someone else.
2007-09-06 16:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by Somebody's Sister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are never fully protected with a condom. They are not fail safe. But you should always wear one. You can possibly be taking a chance when you are with someone and want to have a kid. That is why its always best to be married. That way the possibilty of there being a STD is not so much being you know each other very well. Still a possibility for an STD though. Scary hunh.
Unless you are completely certain your sig other is only with you, and have their medical report on being tested for every possible STD, do not have unprotected sex.
As for the last part of your question, technically one partner could only be a carrier of a disease but not really have the disease itself and still give it to their partner. Weirder things have happened.
Bottom Line. DO NOT HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX.
2007-09-06 16:34:24 · answer #5 · answered by Rick R , Super Duper Samurai 侍 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have kids from protected sex because the condom blocks the sperm.
You have kids by unprotected sex.
It is not okay to have unprotected sex if you really "know" people because you can get pregnant and get STDs.
Not everyone knows they have an STD (HIV and HPV are prime examples) nor shows signs of any and can pass it on to you if you're unprotected. I learned the hard way from an ex-boyfriend. I got HPV from him. He showed no symptoms and I started getting the warts twelve years later.
ALWAYS use a condom even if you think you know your partner because both of you don't know if he is safe with STDs. Being careless can kill you.
2007-09-06 16:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by Tara662 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you use condoms to NOT get pregnant and not get any STDs.
if you and your partner KNOW FOR A FACT you dont have any STDs, then no, you can't get one from each other.
but you should have protected sex. otherwise you can get pregnant. it only takes one time and you can get pregnant.
its never ok to have unprotected sex unless you WANT a baby. and 16 isn't old enough to be having a baby.
you shouldn't even be THINKING about sex.
2007-09-06 16:30:31 · answer #7 · answered by Giraffe Bites 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u know what dont feel bad because i didnt know what a vagina was tell i was 13 i just was never tought any sexual education when growing up and people are shocked but hey it happens.ur not fully protected from having kids or std's when using a condom but its worth it to use one because it reduces ur risk of pregnecy and stds.also the person ur sleeping with can have stds u never know people lie.theres a good chance of getting pregnet when not using condoms as well as gettin stds my advice is b4 u have sex i would get some sexual education and always use a condom.good luck and be safe!one more thing u can get stds from having oral sex also.
2007-09-06 17:17:16 · answer #8 · answered by ~~~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay safe wear condom dont have sex with out.... not for a few yrs til you are ready and able to care for a baby and yourself id say some where in your late 20's.... before you are ready..... and std's you can get only if one has it most always..
2007-09-06 16:44:42 · answer #9 · answered by infoman89032 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex if you have to ask these questions. You are no where near ready.
In my opinion you are woefully undereducated about sex. Do some serious reading about it. And then wait until you are married.
2007-09-06 16:29:15 · answer #10 · answered by 354gr 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋