I am a mother of 4 children, 13, 6, 3, and 1. He has 2 children, but all grown ofcourse. He's very young looking, and is looking to treat me like a queen. He says he's ready to have little kids around and feels it might be a lot of fun as he misses it. I want to hear those who have a 20 year age gap, and what issues you all have had. I don't want to hear from the people who have never done this.. and just want to tear me to shreds! :) I am not a gold digger, as we have the same amount of assets and liquid funds. Not about the money at all.
2007-09-06 12:51:27 · 2 answers · asked by All In A BLOG.COM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am 20 years younger then my soul mate well the thing is its sad when he gets older and when you are 50 he wll be 70. yep its a fact and the problems they hve he'll be in geratircs and you are not that old. well my hubby isn't always feeling good now and he was so active he is active but he knows hes growing old and stuff it scares me and i can't help him hes had signs of cancer we've beat it but still its sad. the kids love him and its great bu t that helath issue is sad. you wil have ot sit there and bear it by yourself i know its the way i would do it agin. but be prepared.
2007-09-12 18:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husbands mom and step dad have about that gap. She's now in her 60's and he's in his 80's. She is still pretty vibrant, and he's not so much anymore. She feels lonely because he always falls asleep watching TV and doesn't want to do much anymore. I think that is a pretty large gap.
2007-09-06 20:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by Zuker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋