I'm a senior in high school and I've never had a boyfriend. I really want one but I don't like any one at my school. I work a lot and I my friends male friends don't like me and aren't my type. Where can I meet a guy? I really want someone but idk, there is know one. I live in an all white town with all white people. I dont really like white boys, so what do u suggest i do?
2007-09-06 12:28:13 · 36 answers · asked by kristin 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Post in the "singles and relationships" catagory, they will help I'm sure.
By the way, there is a difference in "need" and "want" and if you want a boyfriend that bad go for a white boy, you might end up liking it.
2007-09-06 12:34:43 · answer #1 · answered by ϑennaß 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You "need" a boyfriend!?
Well if you are going to be picky.... then maybe you will have to settle without one. What's wrong with white guys??
You can't find a guy in your high school that you like!? How small is your school? Is it because of your standards, or are you just being picky?
I personally think it is the latter. Or maybe you are simply going about it the wrong way. If you sound desperate on here, you are more than likely looking desperate to your guy friends and every other guy.
Guys don't like girls with low self esteem and no confidence. They are too much drama! I say go out there and smile, and be happy and witty! Being over-dramatic on Yahoo! Answers is not going to help your situation.
Why are you still reading this!? Get off the damn computer and go find yourself a guy! There are plenty of gr8 guys out there! GO! Shoo!
2007-09-06 12:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you do not NEED a boyfriend honey, NEED implies that you cannot live without one, and we both know that is not true. If you're looking for male companionship, try meeting friends of friends, or singles functions or online dating (as long as you're really 18 or older!) and see what develops. And, with online dating, make sure you take a buddy with you when you decide the time is right to meet inperson. Safety in numbers!
2007-09-06 12:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by Adult Toy Parties By Emily 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go to a different college out state or out of town if you don't like white guys. Plus..why do you want a boyfriend? Why do you feel you need one? Is it becuase everyone has one and you think you are missing out. I'm 21 and never had a boyfriend before. Your very young...don't rush things and wait.
2007-09-06 13:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by R C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm already taken or you could have me. Patience is the key. There is someone out there just for you but maybe you will have to wait a bit. Rushing into relationships without inner feeling leads to broken relationships. Today is my 27th anniversary and I waited a while and the perfect one came and we are still together. The main part you have to play in any relationship is to Love yourself and know that you are complete whether you have someone or not. Love yourself and the whole world will fall in love with you. Good Luck and Peace Be With You!
2007-09-06 12:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by Premaholic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see you want one. Are there any towns close where you might meet the "right " person. If so, get a job there. Pick something where all people will go to. A grocery store is good, as is also an eating place. If you get out in the public, they will find you.
2007-09-06 12:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by RB 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't judge people by their skin color OR accept that people will always judge you by yours. Meaning, you cannot get angry if people say "I don't like black people and I don't like you because you are black." (that is of course judging by your statements and your avatar) Personally, I go with the not judging others by their skin color.
You don't need a boyfriend. Men smell, leave messes, and really have NO CLUE what they want at that age, other than sex. Wait until college as there probably won't be those same kids you saw picking their noses in class when you were younger.
2007-09-06 12:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by meissen97 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah -- you don't NEED -- never NEED. Remember, if you make someone your everything, when they are gone, you have nothing.
Wanting a relationship is another thing but don't lose YOURSELF in the process.
The right person will show up at the right place at the right time.....period. I LOT of people meet their significant others AT WORK -- and ya know, that is not a bad thing because you at least know HE WORKS!! :)
2007-09-06 12:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't push a relationship. It will come. My sister does not have a boyfriend but she just went to college and i have no doubt that she is going to find one soon.
Rushing a relationship just cuz you "want a boyfriend" is all of the wrong reasons to have one. You should be genuinely be "in like" with him. You don't want to use anyone. Just wait, he'll come along.
God Bless
2007-09-06 12:35:42 · answer #9 · answered by Catholictothemaxtradition 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you don't NEED a boyfriend. I didn't get my first boyfriend until I was 17 and have only dated three guys since then. I'm 20 now. Don't be the person who is with someone just for the sake of being with someone.
2007-09-06 12:31:48 · answer #10 · answered by Lorreign v.2 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋