just started a new job, and this guy that works with me, works in another room, and when he passes by , he always looks in the room,(but I guess that might not really mean anything) and everytime he passes by he always come in and chit chats, and he'll ask me what I'm doing(even though there are two people in the room) and he'll sit in my desk, and look at my computer, and ask ME stuff about politics, and news..I mean it's very casual but he always asks me if I went to lunch yet, and today, me and another co -worker sit in the same room and while they were talking I started doing my own thing typing my other friend on the computer, and he stood behind me and kept hitting my chair...and I'm thinking why does he keep doing that, and then he asks me if I know of a good church, because he hasnt been to one...'s been herein the city for almost eight years ...I'm confused as to why he's playing dumb and being nosey.. Well anyhow what do you think
2007-09-06 11:07:08 · 11 answers · asked by Peaches N'Creme 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
plus he asked me where are the good restauraunts were YOU live?I'm thinking why?
2007-09-06 11:07:44 · update #1
What would I call it?
Either flirting, or someone with not enough work to do.
Next time, just say, "Excuse me, I have work to do." Repeat enough times for him to get the message. If this does not work, tell your supervisor about this pest.
Good luck!
2007-09-06 11:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-31 14:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is making small talk. He might be just friendly or he might be attracted to you. You might direct some questions to him about his girlfriend or wife to find out if he is single without coming out and asking. If you are in a relationship, make comments about what you have done as a couple. If he is making you uncomfortabe politely tell him that you are trying to learn your new job and he is distracting you. Ask that he limit his "visits" to break times. If he is REALLY making you uncomfortable you may need to speak to a third person such as a supervisor about it.
2007-09-06 11:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by a_q_d_pi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normally, i'd think he was hitting on you but some of his q's are a bit odd. could he be the company snoop? you know, getting the goods on people for the boss. or maybe he's a brown noser thinking he's getting the goods to make himself look important. either way, i'd just tell him you have work to do or that you're having a private conversation. so if he'll please excuse you...
2007-09-06 11:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm.. hes flirting with you desperately and you are ignoring him!!! Which is kinda funny!
If it makes you uncomfortable you can always say, "I am seeing someone." or start talking about the guys you went out with or something that would indicate a big red NO THANK YOU.
Good luck!
2007-09-10 09:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by Shana N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, he is so into you. This is exactly how my current boyfriend started showing interest in me. It's very flattering. If you see yourself dating him, enjoy the attention for a bit longer then ask him out.
2007-09-06 13:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by Opal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's irritiating, rude and disruptive. Your job is not to entertain him. Nip this in the bud as soon as possible by asking him (respectfully) to stop his frequent visits to your office. If you allow it to continue, it might be your job that's on the line. Try and handle it yourself, if that's possible. You're new. You don't want to make waves so soon in your career if you can avoid it.
2007-09-06 11:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite simple. He's interested in you, and just working his way up to ask you out or waiting for you to make a move.
2007-09-06 11:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by Denise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he likes you and is trying to find ways of getting you to be interested in him and eventually he wants to try to get you to go on a date with him...i guess your signs of obvious disinterest hasn't sunk into his head yet...
2007-09-06 12:20:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he's definitely interested in you.
2007-09-06 11:17:25 · answer #10 · answered by Jinxyblue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋