IM LIKE 2 or 3 weeks prego i did adopt a little 4 year old Miri and shes sorta overwelmed and having a hard time getting used to my life(any ideas) and i told my bf hes freaked but still sorta happy i didnt tell the rents yet (what to do?) im still a full time student and im just getting real stressed what to do now is this healthy for my body should i really have adopted a 3 year old all the way from japan
2007-09-06 10:34:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I'm not saying this was a bad idea, but it doesn't seem like you thought it out very much. In all honesty, with two kids and being a full time student, I'm not sure if you're ready for all of this. I know I wouldn't be. If it's tough now, I don't think it's going to get any easier any time soon.
To deal with stress, try to do some yoga exercises for pregnant women. Google it, it helps with stress. Try some deep breathing exercises, and just make an effort to be calm. This might be a bad idea, and I'm not sure if you can do it, but if you feel really overwhelmed, take a day off for some time to yourself. Spend the day on the couch in your pajamas, eat chocolate or ice cream or whatever, and just relax the best you can.
If you really feel you need help, I'd recommend telling your parents.
2007-09-06 11:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hun u need to calm down take a deep breath as for adopting the 4 year old i think that was perfect and for ur bf thats cool cause most guys leave us as for ur parents u will know when the time comes k see ya
2007-09-06 17:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by smileymileyc 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it probably wasn't the wisest decision, but she's here, she's yours, and you've got to make time to get her settled into your life. She needs to learn english, she needs to become attached to you as her mom. Is there any way you can quit school or pare down the number of hours you're taking this semster? Your daughter needs you.
TX Mom
2007-09-12 18:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll do just fine. I'm sure you'll get stressed getting used to the huge life change, but it'll all slow down and get settled. I am a mother of one and going to school and working! You can do it...just ask God for his help
2007-09-12 15:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to do what makes u happy. this little girl now depends on you and you should explain to her she is gonna have a little baby brother or sister to love her now too and you will love them both the same. u should try to make her feel included in your pregnancy if u choose to go foward with it. hope my advice helped and good luck.
2007-09-06 17:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by crystalbbl143 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well basically its gonna be abit hard having to raise 2 kids, specially if your still a student and you havent got a proper income, maybe you should tell your parents u know, they might be able to help out
2007-09-06 17:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
who would allow you to adopt a child?!?!? a child is not a pet. you cannot give it back or return it when it is no longer convenient for you.
2007-09-13 10:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by jewls011 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your raising children and you are using the word RENTS..?
2007-09-06 18:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋