I have a coworker, about 42ish) who has full custody of his 13 yr old daughter. Mother signed over her rights. Here's the problem. He's a born-again (LMAO...choke on your halo, you hypocrit), so he's renounced sex until marriage. The thing is, he's said to another coworker, " I thought about (daughter's friend) last night." Don't know why or how. Also, he told his daughter that they were going to the coast. His daughter asked if she could bring a friend along, and he said, "yeah, that's why we're going." Another time, he and this same coworker went to the river. The guy brought his daughter along, as he does everywhere he goes. She sat on his lap. After a while, she got up, took the cup of water she had, and splashed it all over his face. No apparent good reason. She didn't laugh, and he worridly asked, "why'd you do that?" Do you think I need to contact the priest? Well...as long as he's not Catholic...just kidding...or maybe not.
2007-09-06 09:44:43 · 11 answers · asked by ron-D 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I know this is probably the wrong post, but maybe you have good input.
2007-09-06 09:45:23 · update #1
Ok, people. Maybe I should've addressed this question to born-agains and single parents. And miss whatever, when did I say he got a hard on?
2007-09-06 09:54:06 · update #2
UMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
I don't know
2007-09-06 09:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what does being a born again christian have to do with anything? Secondly, your joke about Catholic priests wasn't funny. There are pedophiles plastered all over the world from the redneck living in the trailer park to the CEO of some billion dollar company to every religion there is.
And thirdly, to answer your question: Call social services and tell them the situation. They will investigate.
2007-09-06 16:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there is more going on than we know about, and it is not my place or your to judge what actually is going on. The fact is though, from what you have said, there seems to be some incest or child molestation going on there. If it were me, I would first call the Child Protective Services and tell them what your concerns are, and ONLY then, speak to him, if you feel ike you must.
It sounds like the child is in danger, and not just physically. If that is the case and you suspect what is happening, you are responsible for that girl's welfare, the same as any other human is. call the authorities, the police or CPS and have them investigate it. They know better than us what the signs are.
2007-09-06 16:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by † Seeker of Truth † 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
*Is Catholic*
How on earth do you know what happened at the beach?
Stop listening to gossip at work and you will find that life is much easier.
If you are concerned about some matter of safety for the daughter for some reason, then you are morally obligated to do something about it, talk to him, your boss, human resources, social workers, the police, etc.
However, really seriously, if no one is putting anyone in any danger, stay away from the gossip, it makes life easier.
2007-09-07 15:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by Liet Kynes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he had a hard-on from a little girl, call the police. Why would you contact a priest? That waste of flesh needs to be in prison, not saying hail marys or being prayed for. Seriously, the dude is possibly raping underage girls and you would tell clergy before the law? Im glad you arent my mom.
2007-09-06 16:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The Bible says, "a fool answers a matter before they hear it". I don't think you have enough factual information to make the insinuations that you are. And it is obvious that you are strongly biased against what you call "born again's".
2007-09-06 16:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by oldguy63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think about contacting authorities or the girls parents if you know them. However let me clarify not all who say they are Christians actually are. Christ himself told us this.
Matthew 7:21 Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven.
2007-09-06 16:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by Bible warrior 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are either a witness to something strange and are around him quite a bit or are taking gossip as a fact. If you have been a witness to something then report it. If not then you are simply reporting gossip.
2007-09-06 17:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by djmantx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this isnt novels and fiction here....
13 yr olds dont sit on Dads lap....this is out of line here...
2007-09-06 16:52:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any conclusions that you draw from this maybe correct !!!
2007-09-06 16:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by rapturefuture 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow....
2007-09-06 16:50:43 · answer #11 · answered by DwayneWayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋