I reallywant a boyfriend and my friend just told me that my when my friends boyfriend breaks up with her hes going to ask me out what should i do?
2007-09-06 09:27:19 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go out with them, but plan on getting new friends. Would you like it if your friends went out with your ex boyfriend? Are you one of those loser kind of friends that like a scavenger that enjoys picking-up the leftovers of another friend?
2007-09-06 09:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by metalgods 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't go out with a friends ex, though it depends on how your friend feels. Have they been going out for a long time or not? How serious was their relationship? Going out with a friends ex, just after they've broken up is never a good idea.
Though she may not seem bothered, she probably is inside. If you go ahead with the relationship it probably will cause trouble between you and your friend. Keep in mind that boyfriends tend to come and go but friends are there for a whole lot longer.
I think you could find a boyfriend of your own, though it's up to you.
2007-09-06 09:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh, well. same situation for another friend of mine.
she (let's call her A.), had a friend (B.), who had a boyfriend (C.).
her friend(B.) broke up with that boy(C).
she(A) got engaged with that boy(C).
the boy(C), after only two days, broke up with her(A).
result: She(A) and her friend(B) got angry with each other.
Well, just like one of the other answerers said, slap that dude in the face the harder you can, because if he's so, forgive me the words, ba***rd to dump her and then engage with her best friend (you) he's a piece of sh*t so large you can't even imagine.
oh, just imagine the consequences. in this case, my friend's friend(B.) swore to do the same thing to my friend (A) hen she get the chance.
oh, and by the way, i know how you feel when you say you need a boyfriend. in fact, i could say i need a girlfriend. but i won't. no one NEEDS a gf or bf, everyone WANTS one. but need is not the right word to use. in fact, you'll find a boyfriend, i'm sure. you don't need to engage with the first man you see. just search. you can resist till you find him. that's what i mean when i say "you don't NEED a bf, you WANT a bf, and you'll find the right one if u don't engage with everyone who ask you to."
if you just engage with every man who ask you to, even if you don't love him, you'll not find the right one for you.
2007-09-06 09:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by frutto_marcio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life, miss desperate. First of all, would you really go out with a guy who dumped your friend then asked you out?? Second of all, if you need a guy so bad that you'd do that to her then obviously your dependent and needy. Guys are nothing but jerks and players and a girl who is happy without one is going to be better off.
2007-09-06 09:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ misschels ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends don't date each others exs thats kinda like an unwritten law of friendship. If you do the friendship is doomed to failure. Especially if he dumps her and goes to you. I mean its a tiny bit different if she left him but still it would be wrong. You don't need a man that bad. Find your own in your own time. Remember guys come and go true friends are forever!
2007-09-06 09:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by luvinmykevin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a boyfriend you should go find one!! But if you really like this guy then you should ask your friend, even though she said go for it look at the expression on her face she might be lieng just to be a good friend!!~
2007-09-06 09:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you just want a boyfriend, any boy will do. Don't mess with your friend's soon-to-be-ex (what is that about?) because all that will do is damage your friendship. Go to Boyfriends R' Us and be sure to check out the clearance rack!
2007-09-06 09:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really want a boyfriend, eh?
That's not the start of a good relationship...you're probably succumbing to peer pressure (everyone else having one) and boredom (no drama going on.)
Just wait for one to find you, don't go out desperately searching for one. When the time is right, the guy will be, too. Wait it out.
Good luck!
2007-09-06 09:32:19 · answer #8 · answered by Mandy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think most people want a boyfriend, i wanted one more then anything the other month untill i found one, well he found me as i wasnt intrested in the begining but now couldnt be more happy with him. So you will find one in good time you do not need your friends ex man as that is not what a good friend does and you certainly dont need her left overs, wait untill you find your own, trust me you will. =]
2007-09-06 09:33:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, don't go out with a friends ex, you'll lose your friend. And having a boyfriend is not everything. Actually, boys realy suck
2007-09-06 09:33:25 · answer #10 · answered by nonails 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋