She wants to bring her boyfriend??

Question

I met this girl and she agreed to go out for something with me (not really a date kinda feeling), and she asks if she can bring her boyfriend along. I know this is some sort of a test, how can I pass it without sounding cheap, insecure and stupid?

I know she haven't gone to a point that she wants to make me into one of her "girlfriend", how can I be nice to her and still keeps my dignity?

Answer 1

"I think we had a communication problem. I had asked you out on a date."

Answer 2

The people that have already answered are crazy. Show her your a man of your word. Take them both out. Be nice. Offer to pay, her bf will probly not let you, but offer. Dont flirt in any way with her. Show her you can hold real conversation. Be nice to both of them, hold doors open, etc. After the first time she comes out with you (and him) she'll be comfortable and then you can ask her out alone next time. Thats when you turn on you flirting. If you play your cards right, he'll be on the floor and she'll be in your arms in 2 weeks. If she really loves her bf, you might not get in, but she's gonna tell of her friends how your such a nice guy.

Answer 3

by saying no problem. Is it a date or isn't it, if you're worried about sounding cheap it leads me to believe you had planned to pay for you two which generally implies a date. If you want to be her friend, you'll be hanging out with her and her boyfriend many times.

don't make it a date, don't be going after this girl, hang out with both her and her bf.

And it's not a test.

Answer 4

in a nice way come out with an excuse to not go out

i know u put ur self in a rough situation

best way is to cancel but nicely

and its not too late to cancel

Answer 5

let the boyfriend come and see what happens.

Answer 6

It means she is already taken, and you should ask someone else....