Is it better...?

Question

1) Only ever date one man, who is a good man who can can spend the rest of your life with, but having to spend much of your life as a young adult single

2) Have a seried of boyfriends that may be subpar from adolescence, but never having to be alone, and eventually finding one you can spend the rest of your life with

Just asking because of a debate my sister and I are having

Answer 1

I would say that no.1 is the only logical choice . good luck .

Answer 2

1 & 2 both sound good, but in my chase # 1 is better!