everything is fair game behind closed doors after you're married as long as you don't do sodomy,bring in a third party or animals.
2007-09-06 05:50:41
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answered by I'm Here 4
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There are rules to everyting. After you're married, you just have a legal partner to have legal sex with now. The rules don't change. If it is a sinful act before marriage...believe you me...it is a sinful act after marriage. Sex can still be beautiful, pleasant, and enjoyable without getting crazy and going overboard with it.
2007-09-06 06:03:39
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answered by use 2 b lost 3
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At one time there were various local laws about which acts you could preform with your spouse, including oral and anal sex.
I personally think that as long as it's consensual, it's ok.
Given the contrary to nature argument, the majority of nature is not monogamous. Many species have individuals that prefer same sex. There are a large number of species that will choose a provider mate and then will have a different mate fertilize them. So to "not be contrary to nature" means everything goes.
2007-09-06 05:54:21
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answered by Pirate AM™ 7
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All we need to know about that is in 1st Thessalonians 4:1-5 Finally then, we request and exhort you in the Lord Jesus, that as you received from us instruction as to how you ought to walk and please God that you excel still more. For you know what commandments we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus.
FOR THIS IS THE WILL OF GOD, YOUR SANCTIFICATION ; THAT IS, THAT YOU ABSTAIN FROM SEXUAL IMMORALITY that each of you know how possess his/her own vessel (body/Wife both fits and is used for Greek) in sanctification and honor, not in lustful passion, like the Gentiles who do not know God.
Question What boundaries does this set for a man, whether single or married regarding with his body and How should this affect what takes place between the husband and wife in the marriage bed? Are all behaviors biblically legitimate, or do the words sanctification and honor imply limitations?
2007-09-06 06:17:34
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answered by Anonymous
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All sex should be open to life as God intended for man and woman when they married. So any acts that could not lead to a child are considered sinful.So oral sex is okay as long as it is not the only act.Sodomy is never okay because it is unhealthy and not open to life.Another sexual act that should not be committed is the use of artificial contraception because it is an outright defiance of God. It is a way of sawing " I don't like you plan for human sexuality, so I will go against it".This may sound old-fashioned because society now tells us we should only worry about consent and pleasure, not what is moral. God's rules do not change just because society is now more selfish.
2007-09-06 05:55:03
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answered by Anonymous
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Adultery, which may occur after one is married, would be a sin.
Sodomy, which REALLY means oral or anal, would be a sin.
If you want to do it the sinless way, then your bound to standard for-the-purpose-of-procreating plain old sex.
EDIT: from Miriam/Webster online dictionary:
sodomy: anal or oral copulation with a member of the same or opposite sex; also : copulation with an animal
Not only have you received a lot of answers wherein people are picking and choosing what they like and don't from the Bible (you were asking about sin), but you're also getting people picking and choosing what they like and don't like from the dictionary.
2007-09-06 05:54:35
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answered by Todd T 5
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I have heard that you shall only have sex in order to conceive. That's the only time you should have sex and you are not suppose to have fun, because this would make you a sinner. I guess no religious or christian person lives by that rule anymore and make up their own rules.That is kind of weird! Isn't it?
2007-09-06 18:50:58
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answered by ? 6
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Depends on your religion, Some would suggest do things and not others, and yet some are more specific, even as to how often. Personally, imo the church doesn't belong behind private closed doors. Except sodomy and definitely animals tend to be taboo.
Do you know that the only authorized position while in the military is the missionary. Really, but who's going to catch you, especially if you're married and with your wife. no one, unless you are really naive and dumb.
2007-09-06 05:50:35
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answered by Coool 4
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I think that if both members of the couple are 100% happy with it, then anything goes between them.
They must be in agreement though, and no pressure should be put on each other to do things that they may not really want to do.
2007-09-06 05:52:59
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answered by Anonymous
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sex practices such as oral and anal copulation, pointing out that, like homosexuality, these were “contrary to nature.” The Christian apostle Paul says that those practicing unnatural sexual acts ‘receive in themselves the full recompense due for their error.’—Rom. 1:21-27.
2007-09-06 05:53:46
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answered by papa G 6
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For Catholics, every sex act is immoral if it is not expressly intended for procreation by two married (in the Catholic Church, of course) people.
2007-09-06 05:59:09
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answered by lunatic 7
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