My boyfriend and I have a house and the mother of his child wants our address, however in the past there have been issues between them whereby she has harrassed him and his family when he lived at home still.
I want to know what rights she has to knowing our address. can any one help?
2007-09-06 05:12:36 · 11 answers · asked by shoosh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Let her know your address. She might well of hassled him at home but you make sure that if she ever comes to your home then she will be dealing with you!!!!!!
He does, at the end of the day, have a child with her and I suppose for sending any correspondence concerning the child she should have the address.
2007-09-06 05:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by sal-your pal 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
None of her business. A phone where she can reach him re: needs and concerns of the child. A post office box can be set up if she needs to send him something via mail. But she doesn't need to know the home address, especially if she's been harrassing in the past.
2007-09-06 12:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by Skully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the end of the day they have a child together and she does a have a right to know his address.
if his child is at school then the school would need his address firstly in case of emergencvy and also to send on school reports etc to him because they will not give the fathers copy to the mother.
Just becasue she has caused him trouble in the past it does not mean she is going to carry on doing it.
She could argue back that if she moves why should she give him her address,
its a hard one really but they should just sort it out for the kids sake
2007-09-06 19:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she needs to know your address. And if there are issues that she has harassed you or your boyfriend in the past then you should place a restraining order on her where she can't be so many feet away from your house or you. Maybe that would work just in case she ever finds out your address.
2007-09-06 12:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has no rights to know your address....unless their child is being taken there, especially overnight. It would be deemed a reasonable request that she knows where her child is.She could stop access if she doesnt know.
If she harrasses you though you can make the police charge her these days without having to go to the costs of getting an injunction yourselves.
It is probably better to give the address but have seperate place to hand over the child.
hope that helps.
2007-09-06 12:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by slsvenus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Contact either your solicitor or your social services department, they could act as mediators in this situation, especially as the father has the right to be contacted if the kids are in need, e.g. hospital, illness, etc. I dont think you have to legally give your address to her, it could all be done through a mediator, therefore any meetings between you boyfriend and his ex and the child could be done in a neutral setting, well away from the area you live in. If you dont have a solicitor, either social services or the citizens advice bureau can give you further advice.
2007-09-10 12:17:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, does the child not have a right to know where his dad is? Does he pay his maintenance? Does he see his child? I am not sure of the legality of her request but I would be concerned that your BF isn't trying to sort this out for the sake of the child instead of hiding. Good luck
2007-09-06 13:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by patlynn2 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My ex took me to court to get custody of our child and i kicked up a stink as he snatched her before and i didn`t have his new address and the court made him give me his address but i suppose if circumstances are different it may go your way
2007-09-06 20:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by spuddylicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is up to you and your boyfriend if you want anyone to know your address,if you think it is going to cause problems do not give it too her,there is no need for her too have it,if he see's his child let them arrange on the phone or family or friends to arrange visits,xxshe has no rights what so ever
2007-09-06 18:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
None! She is looking to start trouble. Your boyfriend can make arrangements to pick up and drop off his child in a public place. It is NONE of her business where you guys live. Good luck!
2007-09-06 12:20:58 · answer #10 · answered by lostone30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋