Every woman who miscarry in the past, what did the doctor told you??????????????????????...?

Question

I'm 23 and I've lost two pregnancies both at 5 weeks.
Have anyone gone through the exact same thing and had a kid later on? What did the doctor tell you??? Was your man the problem???

I have been told two times that everything is excellent. So why is it happening.

Stories please:
I wanted to know that if you conceive with a guy and then married another guy, did you finally carry full term???

But I want to know answers. Come on I'm with the same man and I have miscarry twice. What if the problems is him???
I Want to know weeks when you miscarry, If it happen the same!!!!

Answer 1

My cousin has a 4 year old son, she gave birth to him when she was 19. She got pregnant again until she was 22. At 14 weeks she had a placental abruption, and was put on bed rest. She miscarried four weeks later at 17 weeks. The baby was healthy and the was no reason for the miscarriage the doctors said, just sometimes these things happen.

My other cousins wife has had four miscarriages (all from her previous husband) in the past because her uterus is heart shaped. She is currently 8 months pregnant with my cousin's son and has had no problems throughout her pregnancy. Miscarriages are strange and elusive things. Sometimes there may be a reason and sometimes there isn't, maybe your body knows more than science does. I

Answer 2

I had a son, then had a miscarriage at about 12 weeks, then had two healthy daughters afterwards.

What I found out is that miscarriages are far more common than most people realize. Many women miscarry early on (and 5 weeks is very early!) without even realizing that they were pregnant.

Miscarriages can be caused by different things and I don't know if a doctor could positively say it was something on the man's side or the woman's side.

In my case they said my egg was fertilized, but then never grew at all, even though my body thought it was pregnant - so I had the pregnancy symptoms without the baby, basically. They told me to wait a year to conceive again, but I was already 38 so I got pregnant again 2 months later.

Some women are just more susceptible to miscarriages. But you are really young - I don't think you should start to panic at this point, and I don't think that blaming your man is going to solve anything either.

Answer 3

I totally understand. I have had two miscarriages, one around 4 or 5 weeks and the other was about 6 weeks. The second one was terrible because my body kept thinking it was pregnant so it wasn't until an ultrasound at 11 weeks that we found out I had lost the baby at 6. It was earlier this year and devastating. BUT I just had an ultrasound yesterday and I am 6 weeks and 6 days pregnant with a strong heartbeat. I'm still not out of the clear, I'm not as far along as I probably should be so I'm still VERY scared. I was told over and over that 2 miscarriages is sad, but common. They did a few tests and so far everything has been fine. There are so many different things it could be, chromosomes, hormones, and sometimes it just happens. I am so sorry for your losses, I do know how hard it is and how scary it is to get pregnant again. But I do know a lot of women who have had 5 or more miscarriages and were still able to have children eventually. Just keep trying! Good luck!

Answer 4

I had a miscarriage in february and it was really hard for me. It was just as hard on my boyfriend because he thought it was something due to him. When i went to the doctor she said the baby had stopped growing at 8 weeks and i had the miscarriage when i was 12 weeks. Doctors say this stuff happens. On average a woman has 4-5 miscarriages in her life. I have a friend who says she had 4 miscarriages before she was able to have her first daighter. Her daughter is 6 now and is the most beautiful person ever. She then again had 2 miscarriages before she had her second baby. A great little boy who is a sweat heart. There are times when things like this just happen, its natures way of making sure your baby lives a better life. I think a lot about it, but all i can say to myself is that if god wanted to take my baby so small it was better than having my baby live a sickly life of pain. I am 5 months pregnant now, and i am so paranoid and i worry about everything. I thought about stealing my doctors doppler just so i could hear the heartbeat every, but then i realized i was being insane and i just needed life to do its job. I cant tell you that everything will be alright because unexpected things always happen, but i will tell you that i wish you the best and to always keep your hopes up. If you think that there is something wrong with your bf then you should go to a gene counselor, maybe they can find something out.

Answer 5

I feel for you I know how hard it is. I misacrried twice before I had my son who is now 2 years old. First time I was only 8 weeks along. Second time was pretty tramactic I was right at 12 weeks and it was very painful. My doctor said he really wouldn't worry untill you have had 3 miscarages!!!!!! 5 months later I did get preganant and had my son. My biggest regret is that I did not really enjoy the pregnancy because I was worried I would miscarry again. I was pregnant with my husband with all pregnancys. good luck and dont give. you are young and have many fertile years ahead of you.

Also you should know it took years for me to get pregnant. My husband injured himself and it took a while for him to perform normally.

Answer 6

My miscarriages were many years ago and with the man I am with now. We have been married 30 years. The doctor said that sometimes they just don't know why a woman miscarries she just does. The way to look at it is if both parties were healthy then there was something wrong with the fetus and nature just determined that it shouldn't survive. Small comfort I know but in a way it did help me to understand what was happening. I went on to have two big strapping sons---thier weights were 7lb, 14oz and 11lb, 2oz at birth. One is currently 23 and the other is 28 so it all worked out in the end. Good Luck to you. To ease your mind about your mate just have him checked out by a doc. But hopefully you like me was just "shotgunned" like the doc said to me and will go on to have that baby in your future. Good Luck.

Answer 7

I had my son without problem and then miscarried a year and a half later. I went on to have 3 more children without a problem. All of my pregnancies where with my husband. Best of luck to you.

Answer 8

usually if you miscarry that early it's because there is something wrong with the embryo. Nature knows what to do. I would guess that if it happened a 3rd time they would run more tests on you. I could be your hormone levels, thryoid, or problems with implantation.