if you were to have a girlfriend/boyfriend (depends on what gender you like), and that person would never have sex with you, would you break up with that person no matter how great the relationship is? like you have fallen head over heels over that person and that person would never have sex ever. That person does foreplay and kissing and stuff like that but NOT sex.
2007-09-06 04:57:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If I loved that person I'd respect their wishes and not have sex until they were ready.
If you are in the relationship expecting to get laid, then you are in for the wrong reasons.
A relationship is NOT all about sex, its about how compatible you are with one another. Making each other laugh, and being there for each other.
2007-09-06 05:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would stay with the person. Sex is not the end all, be all of a relationship for me. If it's more important to you than anything else in the relationship and you feel it'll be a problem even with her still doing the other things, then you should break up.
2007-09-06 13:02:57 · answer #2 · answered by tink 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not break up with my buyfriend if he desided he did not want to ever have sex again, but if that were to happen to two people, they may break up because of it and not even know. Having sex is healthy for a realtionship, not to mention the fact that is really helps stress. Other problems might occor as a result of not having sex.
2007-09-06 12:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by wingedstrider 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should talk to that person and see WHY they wont have sex... they may have a good reason... like saving themselves for marriage, or wanting to be "in love" before making a move. I'd find out their reasons before breaking things off just because of sex
2007-09-06 12:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Respect !! She's not ready to have sex & that's it. If you break up with her because of that then you are not truly respecting her or her feelings. It also puts you in the category of guys our mother's told us to stay away from .....
"they only want one thing from you !!!!"
2007-09-06 12:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by Lucy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said this was permanent never-ever.
Depends. It's one thing if it's medical (accident leading to wheelchair). It's another if they just don't want to have sex with me. If they don't want me, I'm moving on.
2007-09-06 12:02:12 · answer #6 · answered by Bill 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really and truely love this person it shoudnt matter if you have sex or not. So ask your self is this person worth waiting for?
GOOD LUCK
2007-09-06 13:20:11 · answer #7 · answered by My life is now complete PWK&RJC! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married already and respect her wishes, If you are not marrriage material, then find someone else.
2007-09-06 12:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by Blunt 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
have you ever seen JERRY SPRINGER?!! are you sure this person isn't hiding their gender????
2007-09-06 12:22:01 · answer #9 · answered by twosey ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋