mom died 3yrs ago, my dad remarried the next yr.This lady up to now is an illegal alien working in US for 5yrs and happened to be our neighbor.She's married with 2 kids aged 20-23.We dont get along with their families.We're shocked to know they got married in a short period of time in US. My sis in US told us this lady didnt stop calling him when she knew that my mom died n started flirted with my dad.We know she just want my dad's citizenship and money, we tried to inform my dad abt her intentions but he wont listen, as if he ws hynotized by that lady.Though it was hard,we accepted her w/ closed eyes bec we love our dad.Since then,our relationship with my dad started to breakdown,he treated us differently,and he hated us now.This lady made lots of stories about us,and my dad easily believe her w/o asking us the truth.She threatened us she could stop my dad to support us.She even stop my dad filing for our petiiton for US instead they filed for her children.She destroyed our fmly.
2007-09-06 04:50:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Immigration
Forgive your Dad and his wife no matter what the situation is. You should stop complaining, and just live with it. Pray to God, and let Him take care of the problem. I know deep in your dad's heart, he still love you guys. Stop complaining, and show that you still love your dad. With all that complaining, he probably feel like you stopped loving him too.
2007-09-06 05:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by Patito 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not much that you can do. Your father is an adult and made adult decisions. It may be easier to blame her, but, your father is the one that owed you respect as his children. You can't change him. You can only make decisions about your own actions.
So, now, you can choose to pursue a relationship with your father, or not to. That is about it. And, if you are correct and this lady leaves him once she gets her citizenship, he is going to be hurt, and, you can be there to support him. Or, you can claim that you are "right" and not forgive him and leave him alone when he is abandoned. If it were my father, I would want to support him and not let him be alone when she leaves.
I am sorry that your family has had to go through this, and, hopefully your situation will get better soon.
2007-09-06 12:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda h 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, this sounds horrible. Sorry.I would quess your dad was very lonely.It seems you are not able to talk to him in person so maybe you could all write him a letter and have it registered just for him to sign for it so she will not be able to throw it away before he can read it.
My dad married a crazy women too so I sort of know how it feels.When my dad died she didn't give us any of his things,he always wanted my brother to have his ring. I know she gave it to her own son.There are some evil people out there.
2007-09-06 11:58:28 · answer #3 · answered by Marilyn T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with your father? Why is he allowing her to control him? Your problem is with him, not her.
2007-09-06 11:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its your dad you should be angry with- he is an adult and should be able to make logical and reasonable decisions...
2007-09-06 11:53:47 · answer #5 · answered by If the mask fits... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shoot her
2007-09-06 19:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by shoter1488 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋