The first time at a sleep over it weirded me out. Now, it's not real common, but if need be, we shower at the gym and don't think a thing about it. Did it affect your relationship, or was it no big deal?
2007-09-06 01:40:05 · 33 answers · asked by Nicole n 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
The more you see people naked, the less of a big deal it is. I stopped being uncomfortable about being naked with my friends, even my best friend, in 8th grade locker room after gym class when we would all change and shower together.
Also, I am in community theater a lot, and we only have one back stage room for changing, and we can't always hold up the quick changes to wait for the other gender people to finish. When you are in a hurry and busy, you don't have time to be shocked, and there's no point in being shocked later when you do have time, so you realize there's just no point in being shocked by nudity. Bodies are bodies, covered or not. So, i have become a nudist, which is very relaxing, and I see my friends, and my hubby who is now my best friend, naked whenever I can. We aren't exhibitionists, we just don't bother with clothes when we can avoid them.
2007-09-06 02:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
I'm a man, and my best friend is a woman, and we've never seen each other naked. If we ever did, it would probably affect our relationship. And my relationship with her husband, and her relationship with her husband. She asked him once, and he said he doesn't want me to see her naked. It was a hypothetical question that came up as a result of a different subject. She didn't ask because she was considering letting me see her naked. But she didn't tell him that when she asked, and he probably wondered. Heh.
My best male friend and I haven't ever seen each other naked either. I definitely don't want to, but if we did, it wouldn't be a huge deal.
In college in the dorms my roommate and I would change in the same room (it was more private than the bathrooms, which were for the whole floor), but we never looked. One time he was changing, and I didn't realize it, and I turned around and saw his butt by accident. It was horrible. But it wasn't a huge deal.
2007-09-06 07:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It may seem odd, but I have seen my friend nude a few times. It wasn't on purpose, but we were in a lot of plays together in high school. Its not like it was commonplace, but it just happened a few times.
The only reason it should effect you is if you are timid about human form. I mean, I am fine with it. It doesn't matter to me. But I know others do. He knows it happened, and I know it happened. Our relationship has never changed at all. He is my best friend and we chalk it up to just something that happened, no big deal.
2007-09-06 02:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by piffingod 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it was a similar situation when we were little. I was staying over and her mom annonced it was time to get ready for bed. In their house, that meant shower, pjs, bed. There was an attached bathroom to her room so she striped, when in and showered, came back out carrying her towel, dropped it and dressed. It was diffrerent for me. She then told me were the towels were so I did the same thing thinking that's what I was supposed to do. It was weird to me, but I survived. Now we're grown up and if the situation comes up where we need to change or whatever, we have no problem. We're both married to men so we're not attracted to eachother.
2007-09-06 03:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie S 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
One time me and my friend were at my grandmas house and we were bored so we hung out outside and my grandma lives by a lake and my friend dared me to jump in the water and i did. It was COLD! She did it just to see how cold the water was and then we played in ghe watrr and splashed eachother and by then we were soaked to the skin! My grandma wasnt really mad but we had go take off are clothes so she could dry them and so me and my friend hung out totally naked in my grandmas guest room it was the first time we actuwly saw eachother naked and it wasnt that all wierd though.
2016-06-12 05:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by Sierra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're both straight, both the same sex, and you aren't getting off on it. I would say don't worry about it. I've been in locker rooms and in showers with other guys, most of us just worrying about getting clean and getting going again, being naked is not a big issue. Short answer, yeah you're normal. Bill
2016-04-03 06:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my best friend have done so much together. I've her she seen me only cuz if we need to change we not gonna waste time leaving the room. We over that. We grown and we know we not lesbians. We've kissed and tell each other i love u and we're good but make sure u have a strong bond cuz if not that's where the weirdest comes in
2007-09-06 01:46:37 · answer #7 · answered by Miss. K 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I never did until we went on a hike threw Tonto Gorge, its hell. At first we would hide behind trees to change, as the hike takes you threw a river many times and you are out of the river for many miles and its better to change. But after about 5 miles, we all just quit careing and would change in the open. So it didnt effect us, and ever since it really doesnt matter.
2007-09-06 01:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by applebeer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My best friend is gal.We have talked on all topics(sex also) but we havent gone so far that we can go naked in front of each other.
It would be great that your best friend becomes your life partner bcoz both understand each others and then u can do all things together.
2007-09-06 03:14:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes we have seen each other naked, we are girls and have nothing to hide our body from each other, when she sleepover and go take her shower, and comes into the rm with a towel, she dresses right in the same rm, and I do the same, we both have boyfriends, so its nothing freaky about us. We really don't even pay it no mind.
2007-09-06 01:51:19 · answer #10 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋