Because I was told that the couple could stay together as long as they just don't see each other in their Wedding Attire! I was told, and heard by MANY that the couple shouldn't stay with one another that evening before the "BIG DAY", because their is so much that both need to do, and that this will only STRESS one another OUT, and be pissed off at each other before the BIG DAY ? TRUE OR FALSE ? OR BEST ANSWER ANYONE OUT THEIR>
2007-09-06 00:50:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I think most people would assume that the traditional style of a wedding is to not have the bride and groom stay together the night before.
2007-09-06 00:55:09 · answer #1 · answered by dr_usual 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really you can do what you like. Traditionally, the couple spends the night apart, staying with each of their families. Usually, the Bride stays with her parents of bridesmaids and the Groom stays with his groomsmen. But there is no rule saying you can't stay together the night before and say goodbye in the morning. It's not because of stress and annoying each other that couples spend the night apart I don't know where you heard that from. Most people choose to stay apart because it builds the excitment and anticipation for the couple, not seeing each other, and makes it all the more exciting when they do see each other at the church. Just do what you and your husband-to-be like.
2007-09-06 01:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by BTB2211 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Many people choose to not spend the night together because it is the belief that it is bad luck. It is simply a tradition that you can either choose to follow....or deviate from. It is a personal choice which is why so many people have different opinions about it. You do what works best for the two of you...that is really the most important thing!
2007-09-06 01:55:08 · answer #3 · answered by Kim 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was told that the couple should not be together the night before the wedding, for 2 reasons...one so that they do not see eachother before the big day, and two so that they get one more night 'out with the girls' or 'out with the guys'. This is their night with the bridesmaids or groomsmen to hang out and have a good time.
2007-09-06 01:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is only a "tradition", some people follow and some don't. If you believe in Superstitions you'd follow and assume it is bad luck, but no matter what you will have a happy day just follow your own thoughts and don't see each other in your wedding attire. Congrats
2007-09-06 01:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by heathermichelle9 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
traditional: The bride and groom dont see eash other after midnight. It is said to be bad luck. Also it is the job of the best man to make that the groom gets to the church and gets married. The best man most also make sure that the groom doesnt see the bride on the wedding day before she walks down the aisle. I hope this helps.
2007-09-06 00:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by sweetlips2485 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There are no rules regarding this. It is up to personal preference.
Some believe it is bad luck to be in the same bed/house the night before the wedding. Some believe it is bad luck to see each other prior to walking down the aisle the day of the wedding. Some believe it is bad luck for the groom to see the bride in her wedding dress prior to walking down the aisle.
And some people believe luck is what you make it out to be. If you believe in those superstitions, then follow them. If you believe you make your own luck, do what you want to.
2007-09-06 01:09:36 · answer #7 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i hear that too but we did what we wanted to do and not do something because its traditional. we saw eachother the night before the big day and even the morning of before we got dressed. i slept in a bed and he slept on the couch. (we werent in our own home) we got married 1400 mile away from home and nothing about our wedding was traditional. we got married in idaho 2 months ago in the sand dunes on top of a really big sand hill and everyone got out there by 4 wheelers and dune buggys/sand rails. so it was prettty cool and yes i still wore a normal dress.
2007-09-06 01:59:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 02:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"traditionally" the Bride and Groom aren't supposed to see eachother before the wedding. But I say screw tradition. My MoH is being a pain in the *** and won't let me see my fiance the night before (I'm staying at his parent's house and he's staying with a friend). Its driving me crazy. I hate being told what to do. I say do whatever YOU want to do.
2007-09-06 01:25:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋