How can I orgasm with him inside me for a change?

Question

Manage it very occasionally and boy he does his best - I'd like any tips on coming while he's still inside instead of finishing off by hand afterwards. Thanks

Sensible answers preferably. I'm 29.

Spelling nazi, when you've orgasmed like I can, you'll know it's a verb as well.

Answer 1

Here's a good one - lie flat on your front with a pillow under your hips (for easier access :P). Get your man to enter you in this position (exactly like missionary, except you're flat on your belly instead of your back). It'll help if he stays still or just rocks gently as you grind yourself against your clenched hands. I guarantee the intensity and pressure will get you off, and he'll be able to come inside you. Never fails!

Answer 2

I think it is more psychological than anything. The fact that you can have an orgasm at all is a good start. A lot of girls cant.

There was a period in my life I couldnt have an orgasm from sex. (Oral yes but not regular sex) I could before this time and couldnt understand why I couldnt then. I talked to someone about it and they told me I was "over thinking" it. I wanted to have an orgasm so bad and was so worried I wouldnt that I just psyched myself out. Eventually I broke free of it and really dont have an issue now.

Answer 3

since the typical in and out motion rarley does much for a woman, you might want to switch it up and find positions that hits the g-spot, try positions that makes you close your legs more to add stimulation, like laying on your side with legs up and together. but just lying on your back with legs spread doesnt add much stimulation for you. also try more foreplay, get almost to the point and then go at it, so that way you are about ready to burst when he goes in and then you have a better shot at having it that way. he might want to get a hand involved as well... but if you think about it, when you are on top, grinding feels the best instead of bouncing up and down. but the bottom line is angles, g-spot and proper foreplay

Answer 4

SO many good answers lol... Its usually difficult for me to have an orgasm during intercourse, but I have found that foreplay helps out a lot, and being on top... grinding is the secret. Someone said that and that is very true.

Answer 5

Perhaps not enough foreplay? Ask him to give you a twenty-minute back rub. And whatever else you may like. My guess is that the responsibility is his and not yours. He is in a little too much of a hurry.

Answer 6

Ask him to wear a condom with a tickler on the end, you'll come quicker then! Have a great day.

Answer 7

Hope this is sensible for you. . .

Try a different position where you can use your hand while he's doing his thing. It works for my partner and I.

Answer 8

communication can solve the trick, ask him if the thing is ready to come out and stick it inside fast for that amazing change u've always be dreaming off. hope this helps.

Answer 9

Easy peasy. Lie on your sides and spoon, that way he can use his hands on your sensitive bits while still inside you. Winner!

Answer 10

Sometimes when the guy is on top- you won`t get yours..
try mixing it up a bit.
Like you on top.
that always works for me..
When a guy is on top/ he`ll come alot faster.
But if your on top he won`t as fast- and you definitely will.
Try the cowgirl position.
You on top facing away.....
< your sitting on top of him, and your back is facing him>
Trust me that feels good!