this a nad thing?
I went through a feeling of excessive rage about them, now I don't care about them at all.
2007-09-05 18:29:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
meant to say bad thing, not nad thing.
2007-09-05 18:30:35 · update #1
Seems a healthy attitude, depending on the family.
2007-09-05 18:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jack P 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might find out later in life that you actually do care about this person. No matter how bad they are. My Father wasnt a nice Guy, trust me. In his last years he became apologetic and a lot nicer so this may make a difference. Well he died 3 weeks ago, and i found out that i definitely did care. Even if i thought i did not. Sometimes when people do bad things to you i think that this may be an average response. I dont think that it is a "bad thing" per say. I do think that in Time you may find your feelings changing. As you grow older you start to realize that everyone is as flawed as you are. Every Human has something wrong with them. Some a lot more than others.
2007-09-06 01:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didnt say if you were Christian, but if you are then you must forgive this person if you wish to be forgiven yourself. Unforgiveness is like treading water while holding a heavy stone. If you don't let go of the stone, sooner or later you will tire and drown.
Mar 11:26 But if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive your trespasses.
2007-09-06 01:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you are angry and that is a feeling.
Give yourself some time and see if you feel the same way.
2007-09-06 01:40:00 · answer #4 · answered by J. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not at all! rite now my Aunt and her 2 kids are leaving with us.. and i just HATE Them so much. so i think its just a healthy way of thinking.. Not caring is another to show your emotion!
2007-09-06 01:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
From a biblical standpoint you have basically killed them in your heart. Not good........ I would actually recommend praying for them.
2007-09-06 01:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by Michael B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is very sad! for so many different reasons. maybe you can learn to forgive them
2007-09-06 01:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by warrior*in*the*making 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
and if I won the lottery, my sister wouldnt get squat.
2007-09-06 01:37:28 · answer #8 · answered by vanessa c 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
good it probably gives them some privacy and you get to mind your own business too and get on with Your life.
2007-09-06 01:40:38 · answer #9 · answered by dogpatch USA 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋