need hlp with my friend. her boyfriend broke up with her and now she's saying alot of bad stuff about him.

Question

now she's saying that he's the devil, cuz he's taking us away from her. we make little perverted jokes (alot of people do) and she hates that, cuz it says in the bible that you shouldn't do that. I say that the bible says TRY. not DO. it also says to love everybody. she's not liking him. she calls him so many things and she's run all of us friends away except me. i think she's getting really annoying, but i've known her for over 7 years, and her parents trust me and basically love me.

Answer 1

Eat a sandwich!

Answer 2

One way to ease the hurt of rejection is to say horrid things about the person who rejected you. If you talk to your friend, tell her there may come a time where she will regret having done this and she needs to be more mature about the situation. Believe me, I can look back on things I did that I wish I hadn't....and I can never take them back!

In the long run, it will all work out for the best. No need to burn all your bridges along the way.

Answer 3

When we experience emotions that are unpleasant the first thing that we do is try to avoid our feelings by projecting them on someone else. This is a falsity because the truth is , We receive what we give! If she keeps attacking instead of fully experiencing her emotions she will receive more of the same.

Answer 4

She is hurting right now. Be her friend and listen to her for a while and no more jokes please then, get her busy with activities and other people. She'll be OK.

Answer 5

have you ever tried pulling her to the side & telling her how you feel? talk to her tell her behaviour is annoying.

Answer 6

The bible isn't real, don't sweat it.