I heard somewhere that the majority of women put out on the first date..?

Question

Do you think this is true?

Women: Have you done this?

Men: Have you met women who've done this?

Answer 1

yes a majority do................ they play innocent and think the guy is naive....... but in the end they put out

Answer 2

Overall I believe that this is not the truth. Most women I know that have any type of moral character or respect for themselves do not do this. I have known some women who have and they usually always end up being left by the guy after a few weeks or are just used on night and then forgotten about by the guy, until he wants sex again. Most all of my guy friends agree on the idea that "If a woman puts out on the first date she is a sl*t and is not worth having for a girlfriend". The thing is that men actually do want a woman they can respect. I know that is kinda contradictory to the idea that all guys want sex and will almost always go with a girl for a 1 night stand. The thing is to men there is a difference between sex and love. While no man that is any good would ever have sex with another woman while dating one, he will usually always try to have sex with one if he is single, and as a 1 nighter. If a girl has sex with a guy on the first date or night they meet then she is considered no good. She is a fun time and all but not dating material. We do not want a woman that we feel has been around the block, if you know what I mean. I think a woman should wait till at lest the 4th date to have sex with a guy and that is only if he shows he is really interested in her and seems to have strong feeling for her. Now mind you the fourth date would be about 3 to 4 weeks from the time they first went out. If he calls you, e-mails you, and shows that he enjoys talking and hanging out with you then he is into you. Women should be able to know that by the 4th date. If he is not good to them or does not call, e-mail and seem to want to hang out and be around you much then all he is after is sex. Once he gets it he will add another notch to his belt and be done with the girl. Any woman who has sex on the first date is not worth the time and effort. This is a rule and as all rules there are exceptions. I know a couple that when they first meet, she said she wanted to f*** him down. She did that night, now they are married and have a child together and seem happy. That is a rare exception. So to answer your question, no, women as a rule do not have sex on the first date. If they do then they are usually seen as sl*ts and the guy will want nothing more to do with her. I know I am that way, and so are all of my guy friends. =)

Answer 3

Call me old fashioned- but I think it's a mistake to 'put out' on the 1st date, guy or girl. The reason to date is to see if you have anything in common and, sometimes, to see if you can find a person who can be your partner for life. You ALWAYS have sex in common- always. If I wanted a sure thing, there are plenty of places to buy one or internet sites for people just looking to hook up.

To answer your question, I haven't "gone all the way" on date 1; but I have made out and gotten a little further a few times. I am a guy.

Answer 4

Yes I did, it was the first time I met my husband. I lived in Mass, he lived in Maryland, it was a long distance relationship, we been talking online and on the phone for 6 months prior to our first date. I figured that I was so in love with him, and since we live so far apart, it's now or never. Of course I know it's not a good thing to do, but since I mentally and emotionally ready- I talked to him every night, I felt so sure that this was the men I want to spend the rest of my life with, on the first moment I saw him, we just know we're ready for it. I married him 4 month after that and we've been together for 8 years.

Answer 5

I'm 48 and never had anyone put out on a first date, so I'd say it's false. If it were true, there would be no virgins over the age of 14 in the civilized world and probably an extra 200 million or so in the US alone

Answer 6

I think a lot of women have at some point in their lives. I also think the more mature and better self-esteem they get the less likely they will put out on the first date in the future.

I have never put out on a first date. I was always afraid of STD's. It doesn't matter how well you know someone or how clean cut they are no one is immune to STD'S. Kellylyn1113

Answer 7

I surely wouldn't say a majority, but I've had a good amount of chicks who don't mind giving it up the first night. I have to say though, that those girls never really got any respect from me and I just couldn't look at them the same even if they seemed to be real nice and have good morals later. It really is worth the wait if you can find a person you think you wanna be with. (get to know them first)

Answer 8

No and no. I don't think a guy could take you seriously if you hop in the sack on the first date (unless the first date lasted a week or 2). Hopefully people don't actually take sex that casually. How can you sleep with someone you hardly know? They could be dangerous, they could have something that you don't want to catch... too many scary possibilities.

Answer 9

It depends.. was it a GOOD date? a mediocre date?

Its not like a woman OR a guy would just have sex with whoever they go on a date with regardless of sexual attraction, personalities etc

Personally I have to feel like I am in love with the man, and that he loves me too in order to have sex. Its just meaningless without the love in there. Theres nothing like waking up in the morning next to a man who loves you!!
I didnt even have sex with my boyfriend until we were exclusive together for at LEAST 2 months. And now we've been together for 5 years next month.
Im glad we decided not to have sex until we knew eachother better. It made everything less akward too because we had strong romantic feelings already

Answer 10

I have gotten in on the first date before, and the woman and I still talk, but no relationship occurred. We dated for about a month after that. I wouldn't say that it was a normal thing, but it damn sure wasn't unique.

Answer 11

I have never met a girl that would do that.

Maybe after a few dates 2 or 3 but never on the first. Also i dont think i've ever gone out with any bonafide sluts.