I am a pretty quiet and shy guy, and I dont talk to girls that much just because I am shy. I am pretty much just on a "hey" basis with most girls. What can I do to break out of my shell a little and not feel so uncomfortable around girls?
2007-09-05 09:19:21 · 14 answers · asked by Rickyxlnos 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself. I know that sounds corny but whatevr, it works. Talk to them as you would talk to one of the guys. But use discretion, I once had a friend who would talk about how "hot" he thought some girl was, that was annoying.
Girls like compliments and I personally love guys that have manners. Apperently, nowadays it's uncool to be polite. I think the whole gentlemen thing is a big turn on. Also try to smile more. Don't tease a girl until you know her better, if you tease them without knowing them well enough, they might think you'r a jerk.
Good luck.
2007-09-05 09:33:16 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Honest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try making female friends (not lovers), until you learn the correct way to talk to women (females). If you are not looking at them all as a sex object it should come easy. Also the women will like you a lot better if you approach them as people instead of blow up doll. The benefit of doing this is one of the women you made a friend may become something more.
2007-09-05 09:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET LOOSE! You are a senior in high school and should just look to have fun! Just think about it, once you're out of school, the chances of seeing those girls you're afraid of is minimum... so let yourself be known.. do something spontaneous that will get the girls attention and have them talking and wondering about you! Before you know it, they'll want to know enough to talk to you. GOOD Luck and have fun! Life is too short to let it pass by w/out having any fun!
2007-09-05 09:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by Average Gal! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time and practice. The more you are around us the more comfortable you'll feel
We're no different than guys though... i hang out with all guys...
The more thought you put in to it, the worse you're making it for yourself.
Go find a girl and start chatting. Talk to someone you know something about. Then you know you'll have thigns to talk about. Work your way up... then eventually ask someone out!
2007-09-05 09:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by Megan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till you are out of high school and in college before you break out of this shell.
Its like starting over in college. I was the same exact way in high school. I made an effort to get to know more girls in college and it worked. I know a ton of guys that were just like me that did the same exact thing. I never had a girlfriend until college. I didnt want the drama and all the stuff that comes with dating someone from your high school.
If you dont want to wait, try to break out of your shell slowly. Just start off slow and start talking to more girls. Dont just come up to some girl that you dont know and start talking her ear off. They will think your a weirdo.
The main thing you need to remember is to be yourself! I know how it is in high school and how you want to fit it. On alot of occasions i would try to act like my friends who werent shy and it just wasnt me. I later realized that girls liked me for how i was, just a goofy person.
2007-09-05 09:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mike G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break the habit at the strip clubs first, they always seems interested in what you have to say. Then whenever your comfortable talking to strippers, start talking to women around you, you'll realize they are just a easy to talk to as a stripper just without making a quick buck right there and then.
And hurry up before you turn gay.
2007-09-05 09:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by djb2099 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl, and I'm a sophmore. I'm sort of having the same problem. Mostly, my fear is rejection. I'm self concious about myself and I'm not sure that the guy will like me. What you have to do is pull up the guts to go talk to a girl you like, start a conversation. Once you start talking, it isn't as scary as it seems. I hope that helped. Feel free to contact me if you'd like to talk
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2016-10-10 00:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try.
And it cant be with any girl. Find one that you like... and go up to her. Talk to her, ask her if she'd like to go to an arcade or to dinner or to a movie go slow. Be friends at first and see if she likes you!
2007-09-05 09:25:54 · answer #9 · answered by BrittyP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is one girl that you think is kick@ss. start to talk to her like one of the guys. she will tell her friends how cool you are to be around and talk to and there you go. the girls will come to you!!
2007-09-05 09:26:45 · answer #10 · answered by Becky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋