Why does this keep happening?

Question

ok i like this girl but for some reason i cant talk to her. I talked to her once in february and that was it. Now i think she thinks im stalking her b/c people keep telling her i like her and i cant talk to her. i freeze up all of the time. she knows i like her and over the summer i wrote her a note that her neighbor gave to her b/c i work with her neighbor. now school started again and i saw her but once again i froze and couldnt talk. I'm always saying that i'm going to talk and i always feel like i can do it i just freeze as soon as i see her. im worried that shes going to think that i dont like her b/c i never talk to her or that shes going to hate me because of not talking and the fact that most of my friends have talked to her for me. what can i do so that i can finally talk to her?

Answer 1

Don't get so zeroed-in on one person. Practice talking to as many girls as possible, and eventually you'll see that she's just one of the girls and you will not be so nervous. (Socialize yourself will also lessen the chances of you turning into a stalker!)

Answer 2

Just talk to her.r Yeah you may get really nervous and freeze up. But keep trying to blurt out anything you can while trying the best not to embarass yourself. If it's meant to be she'll appreciate your effort and give you a chance. If she rejects you, well next time you approach a girl it'll be easier. Just get it over with. Rejection is part of life. Don't take offense to it...some girls will find you attractive and some won't. That's just life. Just like you aren't going to be attracted to every girl. Man up an talk to her already.

Answer 3

Sounds like you just need to practice. Try to flirt with other girls and I promise it's going to come easier and easier. When I was younger, I used to blush whenever boys talked to me. One day I realized that everyone has the same insecurities and we all start by faking the confidence and eventually we'll believe it ourselves. So, go out and socialize, everything will work out!

Answer 4

1 dont give things to others for the one you want it to get to, thehy may have given it to her mother or thrown it away
2 what was once courting to come to friendship is calledc stalking today
3 your a great guy dont give up

your a princess and deserve the best


Hugs IN JESUS
A hug can be a wondrous thing,
When it's shared it's nice.
A hug can make you feel so good,
And has a low, low price.

A hug will help the feelings grow,
Of love and happiness.
A hug can mean more to a girl,
Than even a new dress.

A hug that's given out of love,
For lust need not be done.
The need to hold and be then held,
Is strong in a every one.

A hug to me is comfort now,
For all my hurts and ails.
It warms my heart and then my soul,
Of this it never fails.

So hug me dear, and hug me long,
And hug me all the day.
And hug me til the cows come home,
I thank you then I'll say.

okay you can have one... i am pretty sure if you have arms you can have a hug... but if youre asking permission yes ..

'HUG'

that feel better??... im not gunna write you a poem or any of the other stuff other people did... ill jus say if youre into songwriting write your feelings on a page and make a song... its my own kind of hug

hope this helps


sweet p
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nO! THERE IS BETTER THAN A HUG-HUGGLES!good
first relax
then get some help from above and you will have the directions you need=a ray of hope too=EVERYDAY SURVIVAL KIT!!!

ToothpickRubberband
Band Aid Pencil
Eraser Chewing Gum
Mint Candy kissMuah
Tea Bag HERESWHY . Toothpick -- to remind you to pick out the good qualities in others. (Matt 7:1)
Rubberband -- to remind you to be flexible, things might not always go the way you want, but it will work out. (Romans 8:28)

Band Aid -- to remind you to heal hurt feelings... yours or someone else's. (Col. 3:12-14)

Pencil -- to remind you to list your blessings everyday. (Eph 1:3)

Eraser -- to remind you that everyone makes mistakes, and its okay.
(Gen. 50:15-21)
Chewing Gum-- to remind you to stick with it and you can accomplish anything. (Phil. 4:13)
Mint -- to remind you that you are worth a mint to your heavenly father. (John 3:16-17)

Candy Kiss -- to remind you that everyone needs a kiss or a hug everyday. (1 John 4:7)

Tea Bag -- to remind you to relax daily and to think about God's Blessings. (1 Thess 5:18)


This is my gift to you. JESUS LOVES YOU -- don't ever forget it.

To the world, you may just be somebody... but to somebody, you may be the world.

old enought to understand sin and let Jesus into their heart to be their friend, amen John 3 & Revelation 3:19&20 " I love you and knock on your heart door to come in deliver from sin -even one lie, if you ask forgiveness and let me in to be your friend."

Send this to anyone who you think needs to know that they are loved by someone in their lives. Make someone's day just a little brighter today!
prayin for you too with this problem.

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Asker's Rating:
wow! awesome answer!


best wishes for you in this situation too

these are a few lol things he may chose to fight with you about

Things We Do To Drive Men Crazy!!
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1. Do not say what we mean. Ever.

2. Be ambiguous. Always.
3 NOT FINISH THE LIST


°°°°°°°°°°|\ My friend*SHIP* °°°°°°

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Excellent, I do believe your advice was the best, or at least the most fun.

Praying for you and all the best too, David the sweet pea

Answer 5

You probably think that if she doesn't like you, then no one else ever will.

You are making too big of a deal out of the opinion of just ONE person. If she doesn't like you, then she has just missed out on getting to know someone as loyal and kind as you, so it is her loss, not yours. Quit psyching yourself out over it.

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You are less likely to freeze up if you would stop thinking of women as goddesses, or sex objects, and realize that they are just human beings with the same fears & insecurites as you do.

Answer 6

yeah she probably thinks you are weird. You need to just man up ask her out, and when you go out you have no other choice but to have to talk to her. Don't know why your so scared, after the date, you'll look back and realize all this time you have been over reacting.

Answer 7

how bout talking to her on the phone? not so personal, meaning not so scary

or even better, chatting online? messenger?

and then you can move up and eventually u'll feel comfy bout talking to her face to face. just take it one step at the time

let me know how it all works out!

cheers

Answer 8

Just muster up some courage and say hi to her! It will get easier once you do! Best wishes!

Answer 9

just buck up and do it! look at her as just a friend and get to know her and stop always "being around" where she is at. and tell other people to mind their own biz! good luck!

Answer 10

Try your best to say at least hi. good luck