well theres a girl im gonna meet this saturday thru a friend and i think she is really cute and we have a alot common
what do i do
2007-09-05 08:47:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be yourself. If you like her this much then you'd be better off showing your true self rather than act according to someone else's suggestions. After all lies do catch up.
But being attentive to her needs and not devoting all the time talking about yourself does help.
2007-09-05 08:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by ZZZZZZZZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat it very casually. Don't make on the spot decisions. Ahead of time, think about what things you most want her to know about you and be prepared to work those things into the time you spend together if the opportunities present themselves. When you get together, treat it like any other person you are meeting for the first time. Be low key, acknowledge you're nervous if you are, and give her the same space to get comfortable. But reserve deciding if you want to ask her out for later after you've had time to give it some thought. If you're really interested, give her your phone number and ask for hers. Call her the next day and let her know that you want to spend more time with her and ask her out.
2007-09-05 15:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by livingwell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
defenitely DO NOTexplicitly say "do u want to go on a date." As soon as u say the word date, you are implying commitment before anything has even happened between u two. If you like her and u think she likes you, before u leave after meeting her, just be like "O yea, I was thinkin of seeing a movie next friday. Wanna come?" That way, the girl is psychologically more inclined to say yes because its more of a casual thing, but still means to go on a date.
2007-09-05 15:55:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should meet her and talk for a while with your friend around. If you really want to ask her out ask her to see if you can be friends her. Then after a while you ask her out but, wants you say the line, and if she says no ask her if you can still be friends. If you can't be friends first or if you are dying to go out with her ask her when your friend is around to stay on the safe side.
2007-09-05 16:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by scott 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well play 20 questions with her to see how much you really do have in common. Make her feel very special by telling her shes beautiful.
2007-09-05 16:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a movie or out to eat, mini golf, something fun
Do NOT brag about yourself
Don't hang all over her. If you give her a compliment don't keep doing it all night. Makes you look needy
Don't talk about past relationships
Just be yourself, nice, friendly and make conversation. You'll do just fine. Have fun
2007-09-05 15:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show her that you're interested in her through simple signs.
Look at her eyes, don't start staring though.
Smile at her, but not so much that its creepy.
Ask her questions about herself, but nothing too personal.
Ask her out during a normal conversation, don't just walk up and say "Hey you wanna go out?"
2007-09-05 21:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by Kyle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you do don't wait.The longer it takes the more she might not like you or she might be taken.If you are shy have a friend ask for you this way if she says no it won't be to your face and it will hurt less.
2007-09-05 15:55:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her cute stuff and ask her out if she seems interested in you.
2007-09-05 15:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, u will see her on saturday right isn't that a date?
2007-09-05 15:55:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋