My sister is living with a 'feeder.' She is a fat bastard with an **** for a shelf and many many health problems. At least 20 stone, this woman wants to lose weight but HE won't let her. Is it a guaranteed way to stop the attentions of anoher man or what? Is THIS a way of making sure my sister NEVER goes anywhere else because no-one else would want her?
2007-09-05 07:49:39 · 10 answers · asked by ? 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Some guys like "a lot of cushion" and some like a ton of it. If she's happy with him and no other relationship problems then it may not be too bad except for the health issues.
2007-09-05 07:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are lots of weird relationships out there. i've heard of this before and then if the woman loses the weight the guy usually leaves because he has lost that control over her
2007-09-05 15:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it is. Another questionnaire asked something similar a while back. He said he secretly wanted to make her girlfriend ugly, so that no one else would want her. I forgot what he would try to do, but the fact is, there are people who do these things.
2007-09-05 14:57:16 · answer #3 · answered by word 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that just cruelty if i was u i tell to pack her bags and that s leaving out any health risk so
as a sister u gat duties expectation watever but this ainght right
2007-09-05 14:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by adil_saban2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the psychological standpoint, yes, he may be wanting to have her too heavy for other men. My heart is out to you and your sister.
--That Cheeky Lad (psych grad student at the mo')
2007-09-09 06:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by Charles-CeeJay_UK_ USA/CheekyLad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a control issue and he is a control freak, maybe she could turn over in bed and suffocate him.
2007-09-05 17:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's being controlled. She needs to get out ASAP.
2007-09-05 23:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by Classy Granny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a petite 10 and curves........get em ooooffffffffffff. (hows chunky)
2007-09-05 15:04:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just likes her chubby...there are men like that, that want to put more meat on their...who knows?
2007-09-06 09:02:12 · answer #9 · answered by smilesforeveryone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're an ignorant fool. Eat a burger b*tch.
2007-09-05 15:11:13 · answer #10 · answered by FOAMY! 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋