me an d my gf are 19 years old. She has slept with 6 other guys before we got together. I have only slept with 3 other girls. We have been together for 3 years. We haven't had sex once yet. Why wont she have sex with me? I just dont get it.
2007-09-05 07:34:04 · 14 answers · asked by malcom1000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you asked her? Maybe she's decided she wants something more serious before she has sex again.
2007-09-05 07:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked her why she is waiting? There is no understanding without inquiring on the subject. It could be, she waiting on you to marry her first. ASK her what the Hold up.
Here's a thought.... hold on to your seat..... MAYBE SHE HAS an STD from one of the (6)! The kind - a week or two on medicine don't get rid of!!!!
AND I DID SAY MAYBE!
Talk to her, she probably hasn't told anyone, a needs a friend. Don't go off on her if it's true, she couldn't take it if you exploded on her. Hear her out, and remember sex it's what holds a relationship together......LOVE IS!
Seriously... you can see were this can lead, don't get yourself caught in a situation that you could have prevented. She just maybe trying to keep you healthy!
YOU TWO NEED TO HAVE A VERY, VERY, VERY SERIOUS TALK! LIKE RIGHT NOW!
2007-09-05 07:58:14 · answer #2 · answered by Delia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a really bad sign. She might have been turned off by the constant need for sex. Three years is a long time. I would rethink this relationship and start looking around. She has given you a major hint. Also she might be getting some elsewhere. Not likely to just drop for three years.
2007-09-05 07:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probable wants 2 wait 2 make sure your not just in it for sex or maybe the last guy she slept with hurt her
2007-09-05 07:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked her if there are any negative connotations that she feels when thinking about sex? It could be that she was roughed up too much once so thinks it will be the same every time.
Be sensitive to her first and she will open up to you eventually.
2007-09-05 08:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by ladywood128 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure, maybe she is trying to change because of hurt form the past, maybe she really likes you, ask yourself what are you in the relationship for? Just sex? maybe this is a test........ for you. Have patience.
2007-09-05 07:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by angelkay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to quiz her on this. Usually, I would say that's a good thing. But for her to lose interest like that is...odd.
To be honest, she was young beforehand. Perhaps she's saving it for something special between you.
Do something special, create a mood. But remember, that it is her choice too.
2007-09-05 07:39:22 · answer #7 · answered by Paul D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she sees sex as causing the past break-ups in her life. Give her some room if you really care about her.
2007-09-05 07:38:28 · answer #8 · answered by Jabberwock 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants to save herself for marriage now....why pressure her? If you love her and want to marry her then you can waite! if not that tells me you've had a hidden agenda all along.
2007-09-05 07:39:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i really have no idea. maybe she decided to refrain from sex to redeem herself? you are a patient man i tell you. whoooo.
2007-09-05 07:38:56 · answer #10 · answered by Poppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋