me and a girl liked each other a lot and were going to go out with each other, we talked every night and one night cuddled, held hands...but a few days later, she decided not to because she didnt want to destory our friendship,this happened during the summer holiday. its been a few weeks now and we are back to school. but now, she hardly talks to me, its as though im not even there now, i still want to be good friends with her like we were before. does she even care about us anymore? it sure doesnt seem like it...yeah theres the occasional "hi" but its nothing like before, im just afraid of losing her completely now. any suggestions?
2007-09-05 07:27:27 · 7 answers · asked by Daniel -L- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time to move on.
2007-09-05 07:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to corner her and find out what's going on. If she was afraid of losing your friendship she would still be friends with you. She may be nervous since she knows how much you like her and she isn't sure how to act around you. Just talk with her. It may be something as simple as that or she may want to move on and was trying not to hurt you (i know this never works-but it's the thought that counts).
2007-09-12 09:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by peace_honeybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you like someone, really like them, you are willing to risk a casual friendship for the hope of something more. It seems like something happened to make her change her mind about seeing you romantically.
You can guess all you want about the reason, but honestly, it doesn't matter. No matter what it was, there's not much you can do about it but just give her space.
Best of luck!
2007-09-13 14:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by EazyBreezy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Daniel,
It's time for you to move on. I am not saying she don't care about you any more. But what I am saying is that she have move on with her life and it's time for you to do the same. To me it seem as if you an her have already grew apart. At least you can be friends.
2007-09-13 14:03:03 · answer #4 · answered by GIN&SIN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she really liked you more then you were aware and now shes doen. i dont' know why. but maybe shes found someone else and thinks you aren't caring that much. i mean its just friendship. i am ont sure though and telling her at this point wouldn't make a differene.
2007-09-13 00:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess she liked you but valued the friendship more so was scared anything sexual will destroy it. but got caught up in the middle. she wants more but scared to reach out for it. give her some time. try initiating conversations but don't push her.
2007-09-13 10:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by nkemnonchalant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't want to be commited.. move on, boy..
2007-09-13 10:35:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋