I went out on a wonderful weekend w/my boyfriend and another couple. On the last day we started drinking early...by the end of the night, way to many shots of tequila! Resulting in very harsh words. Now, in a deep depression. HELP!
2007-09-05 07:08:22 · 14 answers · asked by md 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
well arent you stupid!
its your responsibility to monitor how much u drink!
i would just apologise and hope he is forgiving!
silly girl
2007-09-05 07:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of MEL GIBSON?
It still bewilders me that, regardless of HOW many examples of BAD behavior there exists over the years with regards to excessive drinking, there are people who STILL DO IT!!!
As the saying goes, it's hard to get the cows back in the barn once they are out. The BEST thing you can do is:
1- Apologize profusely, and sincerely, for your bad behavior, and hope they will accept it.
2- PROMISE that you will NEVER drink to excess again.
3- KEEP your PROMISE or loose forever the relationships you have tried to mend.
Have a great day!
2007-09-05 09:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by wyomugs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw hunny! i feel your pain! this is exactly what happened to me the first year i was dating my boyfriend. i threw out a ton of harsh words at him one night and had no memory of it the next day. it's the worst feeling in the world! you're almost afraid to ask what you've said or done.
there's nothing you can do to bring those words back..but if you honestly can, try to elaborate on what you think you were trying to say. For example, i always held it in that my bf made me really upset when he'd ditch me for his buddies...when it came out that drunken night there was name calling and the truth allllllllll came out. the next day when we finally talked, i just expressed how upset it actually made me, and that i felt neglected when the guys came around. i appologized for the name calling, there's obviously no reason for that in a mature relationship. i also appologized for not handling my feelings more appropriately and promised that if given a second chance, i would approach things in a much mature way.
watch your booze, especially if something's bugging you and may slip out unintentionally. there's really no feeling like waking up the next morning with a terrible hang over and knowing that you did and said all the wrong things the night before.
it will get better though! prove to him it won't happen again! and keep your head up :)
2007-09-05 09:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by notsolucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say you tell the truth when you are drinking. The only thing that will save you is if everyone else is drunk and they can't remember what you said...but beware, there is always the sober one that remembers...Try to not drink or pay the consequences. People will give you a few chances, then you will have to change your circle of friends....
2007-09-05 10:00:54 · answer #4 · answered by TT01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have said many "harsh" words to family and friends while intoxicated. What I do is ask God for help, then go to the person with no excuses, but a sincere apology...
2007-09-05 07:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by Promised Attitude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well now you know better. The horse has kicked you (only if you get kicked a second time is it your fault).
I would call or write your friends and apologize. "X and Y, I really wanted to apologize for what I said/ did. I was drunk then and am horribly humiliated now. I hope you'll forgive me for my poor judgement and that this won't affect our friendship"
2007-09-05 07:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by LX V 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have a time machine, you can't reverse anything you've said while drunk. Trust me, we've all done something while we were drunk that we wish we could reverse the next day. Unfortunately, you can only apologize. If they are truly your friends, they'll forgive you.
2007-09-05 07:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drunken words are sober thoughts. The same goes for actions.
The best you can do is apologize for what you said and try to move on.
Good luck!
2007-09-05 08:20:10 · answer #8 · answered by startwinkle05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. You see that is part of the reason why drinking in excess is not good.
Chill out, apologize and stop drinking like that.
2007-09-05 07:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by Freedom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do,,,,,,,you shouldnt have gotten so drunk....drunks are disgusting. You can drink and have fun w/o drinking so much you make a fool of yourself. Just apologize and move on...chit happens.
2007-09-05 07:34:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't take it back. Alcohol is the truth serum. It makes people say what they otherwise wouldn't have said.
2007-09-05 07:12:38 · answer #11 · answered by A V A T A R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋