ok u all, my bf is a soldier stationed over here, he asked me 2 marrie him cause he got orders 4 tx in dec
4 days later he told me he have 2 think about thinks, that was 2 weeks be4
than i did send him a messagwe after 1 week and ask him 2 call me, all i git back was " i need space"
4 days be4 he did send me a IM and told me he still loves me
WTF?????
but doesnt answer his phone or im's i send him
so now my question
is every american soldier like that in germany
2007-09-05 05:17:59 · 19 answers · asked by natascha_maas 3 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
he's white and 23
2007-09-05 06:07:33 · update #1
Maybe he doesn't like your ability to use the English language properly?
2007-09-05 06:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
I know for a fact that now more German women are targeting American soldiers getting pregnant or married then they claim abandonment collect from their country find another soldier and move to the states keeping their citizenship not dual so they can continue to collect.
2015-11-10 00:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by gina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Not every American soldier is like that, but many are. What commonly happens to these young American G.I.'s is that they're away from home for the first time and they fall in love with their first piece of ***--which often times is in a foreign country. I know this doesn't feel good for you, but it may be a good thing that he's having second thoughts about marriage. It's not something that you want to rush into.
2007-09-05 05:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by mt75689 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all are like that many can be, and many also have wives back home............but this is for all foreign military all over the world, so it is NOT just the yanks doing it.
I met and married my sailor whilst he was on foreign soil and 7 years later things are still going strong, so it can work but you can not force someone to be there for you......and from what he has said he has NO intention of being there for you.
regards
2007-09-05 05:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by candy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it's not just "American soldiers" who play with emotions of "German girls". Men (regardless of nationality, military or non-military) toy with emotions, and so do women. And for you to label every man in the US Military solely based on the actions of one, makes you really, really pathetic. You should rethink your stance on that one.
Maybe his initial decision scared him away a bit. Leave him alone, give him space...or, just leave him alone-he's probably got a wife/fiance/girlfriend back home. Just remember this-not every man is a dog; you just have to keep searching for the good ones.
2007-09-05 08:39:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Can you actually write this in English and not SMS text speak.
I know all German students study English from the age of 8 until 18.
But it looks like he is not interested in having a serious relationship with you.
Is this the same soldier you had a kid with and wrote this in your 360°:
Entry for October 19, 2006
what can i say, hes gone since a long time now and i wish him all the best in tx.
i know hes got a new girl and i hope she will treat him really good but he will stay my "SGT" 4ever and ever i hope he will think of the old times from time 2 time i will think of them and will tell my grand-kids about the best "SGT" in the world
"I WISH U ALL THE BEST IN LIFE
AND TAKE CARE ALEX"
Or have you become a professional door mat for rotating jerks in the uS Armed Forces in Germany??
2007-09-05 05:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by conranger1 7 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Don't trust American soldiers, chances are they will only want you for sex and companionship when they are in Germany, stick with your own kind.
2015-07-30 05:23:26 · answer #7 · answered by Nivi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No different than frauleins getting pregnant to get the trooper to marry them so they can emigrate to the USA, then leave the guy to get spousal support and child support. The game is played both ways, sweetie !
2007-09-09 05:18:49 · answer #8 · answered by commanderbuck383 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No they are not I have several friends stationed in Germany a little over half brought home wives from there. The Army did not like it but could not stop it.
Your BF is just being an anal orifice!
2007-09-05 05:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by Coasty 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I would say that every immature soldier in every army is like that.. not use american vs german girls. but german soldiers in the US, everyone in Iraq...
2007-09-05 13:27:17 · answer #10 · answered by TheHangedFrog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are German I will put this to you as easy as possible. Its called the Elvis Syndrom. Yep...its true. As soon as he gets back to Conus... He'll call your daddy and ask his permission for you to come to the "Lone Star" state. Wait...you'll see!
2007-09-05 12:59:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋