I like girls that have morals and dont sleep around...so it always saddens me when i like a girl and i hear or see pictures on facebook of her doing disgusting thigs like drinking herself to death, taking drugs and going around with guys...but i like this particular girl and i cant tell if she gets around...what are the signs, and how can i tell?
2007-09-05 03:12:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you can pay me to get her to have sex with me. Then you will find out for sure. It will break your heart but at least you know it early before you get too involved.
2007-09-08 22:23:42 · answer #1 · answered by crazy for you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really tired of people just thinking a girl that sleeps around is a ho and guys that do the same thing are normal. A girl that is very sexually active and seems to be a ho has probably been through more crap then you could ever imagine being in.these girls don't have self respect because no one has ever shown them respect .they need the most love they just look for it in a touch kind of a way. because of the pain they feel inside. stop looking on outward appearance all those girls that are all crazy and put on that crazy attitude that I don't care. really care the most . It should not matter how many guys she has been with.Love looks past anything.pride will just get you nothing.why not find a girl that needs love and give her the world rather then be so stuck up and wait for some other girl that is stuck up. not that you are stuck up but I think people need to stop only looking on the outward appearance .Make sure who ever you get with is your best friend not just someone that looks like they have it all together.good luck
2016-05-17 08:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I am the same way, well with guys I think its just grose to mess around, anyways the way this came up with me and my boyfriend of now 3 years was a simple friendly conversation starting with "do you like being in a relationship or the single life" thats a way you can sorta figure out what she is like. Then as you get to know eachother better have conversations about deeper things and as you begin to trust eachother more will come out on its own. Remember a girl who doesn't respect her body wont respect you.
2007-09-05 03:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by Essa L. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always the best policy. If you can not talk to her about her history and about your own, then for goodness sake do not try to get into her pants yourself. It always cracks me up when people imply that they can not be direct and intimate in conversation with someone they hope to be physically intimate with! If you can't share your mind, do not share your DNA.
A warning - you may be totally honest, but that doesn't mean she feels safe right away to be totally honest with you...relationships almost always take TIME. There are few shortcuts in successful relationships.
2007-09-05 03:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by Arby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is obviously very important to you considering how many times you have asked this question. My advice to you is to get to know the girl before asking her out. Ask a lot of questions. Getting to know her before you consider dating her will help you not to hurt her feelings if it turns out that she is not everything you want in a woman.
2007-09-05 03:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by Alli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her, maybe ask her out?
it's not that difficult to tell what a person is like and what their habits are once you start spending time together.
instead of being paranoid, just get to know some girls....
2007-09-05 03:18:40 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea..and us girls want nice men too....your suspicions are the 1st step to a destructive relationship...if she ever happened to talk to another guy..are you going to get all upset and wonder if she is what you thought she was....best re-evaluate what you want in a woman.
2007-09-05 03:25:49 · answer #7 · answered by Aymee L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't exactly tell but ask around and you may get some answers that are pretty useful.
2007-09-05 03:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by ♥£eah♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel her out for awhile! Who are her friends? Where does she hang out? Is she a church goer? She out late at night? Does she hang out with mainly guys? How does she dress?
2007-09-05 03:17:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh well,is she's not gonna tell you,you won't know about her bed businness;but about drinking-maybe get to same party and seem,same about drugs...and also,taking frugs is quite noticeable;but not enough if you ain't friends...
2007-09-05 03:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by Feja Katyte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋