going what he is doing and he said it drives him nuts that I can not trust him.
He said if I can stop he loves me and wants to be with me.
Other wise we should just be friends!
Ahh I am crushed! I love him and nothing goes right I always screw something up!
2007-09-05 02:10:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like a very over possessive person. Are you so unsure of yourself that you feel like you have to keep such a close rein on him ? If you don't knock it off, you are sure to lose him.
2007-09-05 02:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by jcf6865 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi! Relax, your situation just isn't that serious. Not trying to be mean but you need to think of why you treat him as though you don't trust him. Like he said, you need to trust him and be with him or don't trust him and move on. If he's not given you a reason to not trust him then you need to correct the way you talk to him so that it doesn't seem as though you're accusing him of doing things. If you're trying to figure things out about him you can't put him in a chair with bright lights shining in his face. The best way to talk to a guy is let him feel everything is his thought or idea. If you want to know where he is you can't come out with where are you. Tell him where you are and then say so where are you going to be later? You have to think of it this way, you can't treat him differently then how he treats you. You wouldn't want him treat you like he didn't trust you, would you?
2007-09-05 09:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry; growing up can be very hard! It's really tough being a teenager, but soon enough you'll get more comfortable with yourself and be able to have more relaxed and more stable relationships. It really helps when the hormone surges ease up. You don't always screw things up, it's just that you feel that way right now. Let it go, let him go, and see how things work when you're less manic about them. You'll be fine! And, more importantly, you'll find that threre are plenty of guys who really like you when you're more relaxed about yourself and about them.
2007-09-05 09:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by John R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just getting quite demading.
Give yourselves to adjust to each other. Or, if you want give in to his wishes if its reasonable enough. Do it in the name of love.
2007-09-06 21:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋