Last year, my boyfriend bought me a car. I can't drive so he thought I could have a practice in the car he bought me. He knows I am scared of learning to drive so he said I can learn once I am ready. But the other day, he talked about doing it up and selling it! I know this might sound crazy but this hurt me as he said it was mine and I want to be able to drive I just need that bit of confidence to push myself. He used to push me and now he wants to sell it because it's "sat there collecting dust." Why would he encourage me one minute and then suddenly tell me we should get rid?
2007-09-04 23:54:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Cars & Transportation ➔ Buying & Selling
When he got u the car that means he loves u so much that he does not want u to face any problem in travelling.
Since u r scared of driving and have not used his gift, u actually broke his heart.
So he is playing now thinking that if he says he is selling the car u will feel bad and learn to drive.
He will not sell the car but it would be really good if u start learning how to drive. It is not that scary, it is fun and it is worth it when u see ur boy friend is happy.
The best part is u'll overcome the fear of driving.
2007-09-05 00:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by chinnu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may have hurt you, but if the car is sitting for a year, things start to deteriorate on it. If I were you, I would either start practicing very soon or hope that he is going to sell this car and maybe get another one. Try getting in the car and starting it and putting it in gear and moving back and forth. Maybe doing that will show that you are trying and he may hold off on getting rid of it. He may be telling to he is going to sell it to get you more motivated.
2007-09-05 00:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by Jon S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to see some return on his investment wouldn't you?
He must love you loads as I think he has been very patient with you. If your not confident about learning to drive then perhaps you ought to go and book some driving lessons otherwise that car will become a pile of rust instead of just gathering dust.
Go on you can do it. You will regret it if you don't make the effort believe me you will.
2007-09-05 00:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an Indian giver. No, he's probably run out of ways to get you to learn to drive and this is a last ditch attempt to get you to do it. I can tell he cares for you.
Go and pay for a couple of lessons, hold your nose and jump in. You don't know what you are missing out on
2007-09-05 00:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are asking at the wrong place. Go ask the same question to your guy!
There is a saying - you cannot swim by standing on the shore. start practicing by driving in parking lots when its empty.
2007-09-05 00:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by ping_anand 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A year has passed. That's hardly "one minute" and "suddenly". Maybe he said it to try and get you to learn to drive? This could be your last chance...
2007-09-04 23:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
reverse psychology.
Maybe by saying he wants to sell it, he's hoping to push you into learning.
If you're not going to learn and the car is just going to sit there, then it is a good idea to sell it. A car deteriorates while it sits. sitting is one of the worst things to do to a car!
2007-09-04 23:57:36 · answer #7 · answered by Senza 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ahmmm, women are stronger than men psychologically. he will not win his case that car is yours, make him sign the log book over to you. how? well when hes got morning glory dont let him near the honey pot. i know it sounds sick but to make a man cross a cheque over to you, you have to cross your legs first. sex for sexs sake a man can get it anywhere, but you know your man loves you, that warm comferting feeling he doesnt want from anywhere else. a cuddle in thats all we want and maybe a fiddle here and a tickle there.
2007-09-05 00:17:15 · answer #8 · answered by herr fugelmeister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is right - it is sitting there doing diddly squat - you can't get confidence unless you make an effort and try - which you aren't - so what is the point of it sitting there losing value every day.
2007-09-04 23:58:45 · answer #9 · answered by jamand 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do way i see it, the car is yours to drive, since you dont drive it, he's right to sell it ... considering you hurt his feelings not taking his offer, i would spend the money on myself. most likely he's going to spend it on you, you're a lucky girl [your avatar looks like a man ...] so dont make a fuss on this one ...
2007-09-05 00:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by Splishy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋