I'm in love with this woman. She's perfect. I couldn't make her any better than she already is. She's beautiful, smart, funny, laughs at my stupid jokes, and just screams "the one". I could easily marry her. We've been together some time now, and just by feeling, I can really tell I'm not her "one". I'm not "the one" to her. I feel like just another one of her boyfriends, that eventually will cause me to dump her, or her dump me. If I know it won't work out in the end, should I just end it now, or is this something I can talk to her about. If it is, why would she agree with me? She likes me? Hard decision
2007-09-04 23:29:44 · 10 answers · asked by Rey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her how you feel dude -- communication is the ultimate in relationships. If you can't talk to her, you really can't "easily marry her"... you know?
Try it -- if you can tell that she doesn't feel as strongly as you you either choose to wait it out and see if your love grows, or move on and find someone more suited for you.
Good luck!
2007-09-04 23:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by Jewls 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah dont break it off..
Why lose something u got when she makes you so happy?
If she wasnt that interested in u, then im sure she would have up and left u by now...
How would you know that ur not 'the one' 'her one'??
You sound like a lovely boyfriend and its great that you can talk about her that way - shez got to be crazy if she wanted to leave you... You talk her up as if shez a princess...And trust me, thatz very attractive!
Just shower her with ur love and keep duin what u do..
And yeah, if talking to her will give you an answer to ur question then do it... Sit her down and tell her that you have fallen in love with her and u think she is the one but ur worried that she doesnt feel the same... Onli she can give you an answer to that...
So again im going to say 'STICK WITH HER, SHE IS THE ONE'
2007-09-04 23:41:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can give you this answer, as it is your decision what you do. All I can say is follow your heart, what does your heart tell you? If you're unsure... talk about it with her. The best thing in love is communication and communicating.
You'll break her heart if you break it off - we are women and we wouldn't understand your reason for doing so, she'll think it's something she's done wrong.
Have you spoken to her about marriage before? If so, what does she think about it? Remember not to rush into it... you're young, you've got plenty of time to do that.
I think she's your one. It's only your confidence that is holding you back from thinking this...
Hope this has helped.
2007-09-04 23:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by Raquel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are in love with this woman, and then as I am reading on, you say that you are not the one and you want to end it.
I would say that you really do love her and you have to admit it to yourself, and talk to her about it, you are afraid of being dumped, and you are afraid to "ride the wave" and enjoy this relationship.
I would say talk to her, enjoy what you have, and stop worrying about if she is going to dump you, dude, she obviously loves you, you have to work on not being so afraid and just enjoy what you have with her.
I have a feeling that you have been hurt in the past really bad, just let go of the past, and love the one you are with, she loves you, talk to her how you feel, and communicate with her, and maby talk to a therapist about your feelings about relationships.
You need closure from your past relationships to deal with your present one.
2007-09-04 23:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is very important in a relationship.You have to tell her what you feel,you said yourself she screams''the one'' dont doubt yourself and you never can tell she might just be waiting for you to say what's on your mind before she tells you what she feels for you.Talk to her and sees what happens from there.Good luck.
2007-09-04 23:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by Lilian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what can i say, dont dump her, let her dump you, why? to make him suffer for breaking up and see that you move on. You will regret if you do the first move for breaking up. Mark my word. Just let her do what she want.
Goodluck!
2007-09-04 23:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, we can not make the one we love , love us. You need to talk to her about how you feel. If she says that you are the one, let her know that she does not make you feel that way. Good Luck!!
2007-09-04 23:38:32 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u long for her that is sure so why doubt urself.Confess before some another takes her away and u compare ur future wife with her.
2007-09-04 23:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by swati_chhavi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how do you" realy" know what she is thinking? are you a mind reader? i think not. you dont know that it wont work out....talk to her about it, you will never know if you dont ....keep the lines of comunication open.
2007-09-04 23:41:29 · answer #9 · answered by juskilentime 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont be hasty, try to win her heart.
2007-09-04 23:36:24 · answer #10 · answered by shapixx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋