she says she wants to be just freinds... but she texts me goodnight.. last nite it went along the lines of.. sweet dreams baby..... etc etc.... love you and missing you xx........
we have had some history.. but she maintains she wants to be jus freinds... wats goin on? ?
2007-09-04 22:13:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is a head fuker and loves the attention. she is stringin you along. tell her to sling her hook!!!
2007-09-04 22:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Tell her fine, whatever babe.Your going out with a different girl so no problem.Women HATE to feel like theyre not needed/wanted/worried about.Blow her off and she will be a little less moody.If not a different girl make up or really do something VERY fun,but since she wants to be "just friends" its too romantic for that.Ain't it sweet?Then go buy yourself a lap dance...that all night text crap can wait till the songs over.I hope you do this honey ....if she doesnt come thru for you it wasn't meant to be.
2007-09-04 22:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy Tiger 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Orla - is it possible that she had had a few to drink when the message was sent? Us girls are terrible for drunken dialling and texting and if we know that someone wants us they will be the unfortunate recipient of the messages. I don't mean it horribly and I certainly love my friends and don't hesitate in telling them so, male or female, but there are some people who have learnt to discount any text from me that is sent after a certain time and has certain sentiments!
2007-09-04 22:30:33 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like she was one person last night and now she is somebody different this morning. Get her to explain herself, if she does'nt have the guts to confront you, then she won't be much of a friend. Past history with friends is bad. Always good to keep it platonic.
2007-09-04 22:21:31 · answer #4 · answered by Derek k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she is in denial...let her know that the text is becoming an issue...maybe she cannot let go....you have to break it to her gently that the text she is to send if she wants should be less frequent and not full of 'I love U's........as you do not love her in that intimate way as you once did!!!
2007-09-04 22:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she might be a bit in decisive.
Maybe she wants you to think she does want you so you hang around waiting for her to make up her mind.
2007-09-04 22:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's toying with you because she's probably confused about her emotions...
i.e. She maybe wants to know someones interested in her but doesn't necessarily want a relationship...
good luck =]
2007-09-08 22:19:41 · answer #7 · answered by Flutterbies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her that if she really wants to be friends with u then she should stick to that. if u also want to be with her then let her know that. if she still insists on being friends then give her the friendship terms.avoid giving her attention
2007-09-04 22:36:16 · answer #8 · answered by miss Kese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shemight have been drunk when she texted it. Or sent it to the wrong person. Just let it go. Either way it's not that important, unless she calls you up when sober and says it to you directly.
2007-09-04 22:20:18 · answer #9 · answered by Orla C 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
sounds like she s a bit unsure give her a bit of space an see what happens
2007-09-04 22:32:52 · answer #10 · answered by Bogan Outlaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe her minds thinking in different way than it was... so maybe she doesnt just want to be mates anymore!
2007-09-08 08:50:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋