At times I feel like giving up, don't know which path is right. Is there a god or is there not? Both sides show great arguments but in the end the choice is up to me. Deep inside me I always believe in a god but what if all we are is just an accident that were created from evolution and when we die we just vanish into the air and just be forgotten. Life seems so simple yet at times so complicated.
2007-09-04 19:48:56 · 45 answers · asked by sonny m 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Well, my advice to you: learn to phrase your question better such that people don't start to type out responses to help you figure out your sexuality.
Honestly though, I'd just recommend evaluating exactly WHY you believe as you do. If you feel you always believe in God deep down because you've felt the work of a higher power in your life, then cool, go with that and remind yourself of it. If you always default back to that because that's what you've always been taught, and it's comfortable/what you're used to, regardless of how true it seems, then you may want to think about this quite a bit more...
2007-09-04 19:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by yelxeH 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
If you believe in that inner spark then it exists--at least to you--right?
And since the only reality that you can objectively participate in is the one that is inside of you, your inner convictions are all that you truly have.
As to the Evolution vs. God: Why all of the anxiety? Could not an omnipotent being have made fish become mammals?
Try viewing the world as a set of complimentary opposites instead of a dichotomy of polar opposites--at least with this issue. Both ways of thinking have uses and times--learn that and you will loose a great deal of the anxiety.
God will not curse you for thinking--he made your brain--and he would not want mindless obedience. He would want willful acceptance. And Evolution can not curse anyone as it is impersonal and already dead--in a sense. And as such is not demanding anything from you. Just my two cents.
Look little brother, this is the totally wrong place to bring this problem to, you and you alone must find your path.
You are the one that will have to walk it, so you may as well be the one that charts it.
Ignore me, just so that you do it because you know that you are right. And I mean know, like absolutely can taste it brother!
You have your whole journey ahead of you, five, two, even--maybe--one year from now you will say," Wow, I know." And then you will be your own person.
It is hard having to burst away from the safety of childhood and experience the pains of doubt, but if you do not preserver you will never be a complete person and you will lose the chance to be great; truly great.
And hey brother life is not any less simple or complex at 34 than 14. It just has different trials and tribulations that must be dealt with to learn to grow.
Be upright and just and you will be right with all in the universe. That is the essence of life--at least that I have found.
2007-09-04 20:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm atheist. But I won't sit here and tell you religion is a bunch of lies and God does not exist. It's something I believe, but it's not something I can prove; nor is it a belief I feel I should impose on others.
Rather than focusing on a major question like whether there is a God, focus instead on the things in your everyday world. Treat others with respect and just try to be a decent person.
In time, you're life's experiences will help you decide what makes more sense to you. Keep an open mind and remember that all people are entitled to their own beliefs - no matter how silly or logical the seem to you.
2007-09-04 20:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by Justin H 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
These questions have been thought about by great philosophers for centuries. That you're 14 and thinking about these things is a great sign.
An uncontemplated life isn't worth living. (Aristotle)
Often when we search for truth, it is important to look for what is "true" and not "what do I most want to be true." I would prefer that I get to live in Super Happy Funland forever when I die. Because I want it very much, doesn't mean, therefore, that must be what reality is.
That I am here, well, it may be an accident, but...all accidental occurances aren't bad are they? If "the worst" is true, and there is no sky being looking down on us - is it really that bad? A sunset is MORE beautiful because it is here briefly. The shortness of our existance isn't meaningless because we don't get to live forever. The opposite is true. Because we have short lives on this planet, those lives are all the more precious.
2007-09-04 19:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by Laptop Jesus 3.9 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Woah, I'm not sure what to say. For now, realise that these thoughts are quite common as you grow up and that throughout the history of the universe, people have wondered about the mysteries of life and their purpose. Maybe talk to your parents or a friend about their beliefs. Think about what route you want to take. The choice is yours.
Do you really believe this amazing world with complex nature and human's with complex thoughts and situations just started with a explosion of dense matter? Or not?
Good Luck deciding.
2007-09-04 20:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by bluebunny1026 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
great question from someone so young. You are wise beyond your years. By the way, ignore those who insult your question because you are young- God is pleased when young people are concerned about important things, especially the existence of God. I am almost 50 and I have to tell you, there are days that I doubt as well. Do not be ashamed of that. And you are right it is a choice, if you believe in God or not. Wouldn't it be very sad to think that this is all we have. We live here for a very short time compared to eternity, and if at the end of our earthly life we cease to exist, what would be the point of that, and where would our hope be, since this life is not all that wonderful at times, is it? God created you, and desires for you to have a personal relationship with Him, through His Son Jesus. He wants you to put your hope in Him for your salvation so when your life on this earth is done, you will live forever with Him- He is our hope, Choose today, whom you shall serve. And again, great question - if shows you are wise, beyond your years.
2007-09-04 19:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by AdoreHim 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Around your age, I went through the same thought process about life and God. You should never think about giving up buddy. It is all too easy to. The reality is, everyone will die. But you gotta fight through all your fright and realize there are so many great things in life, so many people you will touch, and so much to live for. Think of the present time and don't worry. Realize the good in life. Don't give up, keep your head high, and live like it's your last day. Best Wishes
2007-09-04 19:58:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
HI PAL
well if u believe in god then u must believe that an eternal life is awaiting 4 us after our death!!
dont get indulge in such questions only great scholar can give u the best answer its not by being in this site which will aid u to know the truth!
good luck!
2007-09-05 01:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by melissa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa pal.... You're young and confused... been there done that. You need to separate yourself from EVERYTHING religious (specifically going to the church your parents make you go to) and then try to focus on what YOU believe.
I had the same problem at your age. After a lot of soul-searching (yes, even atheists can believe in a "soul"), I came to the conclusion that there is no god.
Regardless, I have respect for all religions. My Mom is Christian, my best friend is Buddhist, my girlfriend is Wiccan.
In the end, you have to come to your own conclusions. It's tough, I know (my Mom is STILL telling me how I'm doomed to "hell") but it is still entirely up to you and what you know is right.
Good luck man:)
2007-09-04 20:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lad, go where your mind takes you. Chances are that you'll pick up more and more about it all as you gallop into your late teens. If I may speak to you in a fatherly way--I have three kids--, try your best to enjoy these early teen years, be true to yourself and your parents and friends, be kind and generous and sharing. I can tell from your post that you're a fine young man, an intelligent and creative fellow. And I wish you the best as you tackle these questions that sometimes are confusing to people who're a lot older than you are. All best, Yank.
2007-09-04 20:21:33 · answer #10 · answered by Yank 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋