my friend was asked out by this guy, she told him she loves someone else. he asked who? so even though it was none of his business she told him who. he then said well is he interested because if he's not then i am. He left her alone for a while but now he asked her out again by txt this time and she said i need to talk to you. so they arranged to talk and he wouldn't let her get a word in he just assumed they were going out.
I personally think he is a pig. But how does anyone have ideas of how to get rid of him. (he's a very dominant person)
2007-09-04 19:29:29 · 8 answers · asked by lil 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...okay Have you friend do this
1. tell him firmly that you don't like him...nicely
2. If he keeps trying...start tell him with feeling and power...
3. If he really keeps trying...just IGNORE HIM...
don't say anything at all! ...wait til he gets the point that you don't like him!
But only go through each step cuz' he keeps trying!
Hope I could help♥
2007-09-04 19:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your friend are up to it (assuming you are both female), tell her to tell him to meet the two of you at a bar or something. When he gets there, make sure your deeply involved in a 'make-out-session' as he approaches. Have her introduce you as the person she is in love with.
That will probably send his brain into meltdown mode and should do the trick. If not, it'll be a great story to have with your friend.
Good luck
2007-09-05 02:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by pattitutde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, "Don't go out with him just because he pressures you." Tell her to learn to say NO, very firmly, and mean it. If she really doesn't know how to, tell her to talk to the free counseling hotline, it's probably offered through a local woman's group, a domestic violence group or a rape crisis center. They offer it, because domestic violence and rape often results from men who won't take a meak little 'no' for an answer. She needs to assert herself.
2007-09-05 02:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to ignore his advances and tell him in no uncertain terms that she does not want anything to do with him. I don't care how domineering he is, if she puts her foot down he will leave her alone.
2007-09-05 02:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle My Bell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's your friend's life, so don't butt in too much. your friend might even like him just because everyone keeps telling her not to. if your friend doesn't really like him and he's assuming too much, how about something honest like telling him to back off. stop conniving and plotting you evil succubus.
2007-09-05 02:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by ohn_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know any guys that are rough? not to hurt him just to scare him or if she's ballzy get brave and tell him that she's not interested with her own flavor.
2007-09-05 02:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get an intervention order
2007-09-05 07:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you have VD
2007-09-05 02:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋