there are two guys and you like only the secound one. you tried talking and getting to know him.but he showed that he's not intrested at all.
but the first guy came up to you asking you out, you said you have no feelings for him. but he insisted and even ask you for sex.
as you glanced at the guy you like, the first guy kept asking you out. what would you do?
2007-09-04 19:16:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why is this even a question? Say no.
This guy obviously has no respect for you. He keeps persisting, even after you say no, and even asks you for sexual favors. He's a pig.
Whether or not the second guy likes you doesn't matter. The first guy is a jerk. You shouldn't date him either way, even if it weren't for the fact that you like someone else.
Don't feel obligated to date someone just because they ask you.
2007-09-04 19:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, well this is a guys point of view. I know what your thinking, "OH-NO" right.
I'd definitely keep my eyes set on the second guy, first of all you're attracted to him and not this other guy. And secondly this first guy ask you for sex, what's up with that? Just blow him off and get rid of him as soon as you can. You shouldn't give up on the other guy, yet though. Maybe you should just take it slow and start up non-threatening conversations with him. Don't make your affection too obvious, you might scare him off.
2007-09-05 02:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the second one isn't interested, he won't be interested no matter what you do. So, as Shakespeare said, "To thine own self be true." Only date people you like. If the first guy doesn't have a chance with you, don't lead him on by saying yes to a date. If you do, you're just playing games.
2007-09-05 02:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll keep trying to tell the guy that i have no feelings for him and mabye just be friends.and i'll also try to catch the attention of the second guy.i always tell myself that love won't happen instatly.i'll just have to wait.
but if i think it has been too long,i'll still be friends with him but never going to go after him again.and just find a new guy i like. there are plenty of other birds waiting to be found in the skies.
2007-09-05 07:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there's no feelings in us...hes dead meat...lol. dump him....
on the other hand, if the second guy ahs the same on me? am dead meat too....lol.
things are so complicated and unfair? better luck next time or just lower my expectation but as for the sex part? would only with men whom have feelings with and being more enjoyable....lol.
2007-09-05 09:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by coffee_tea_or 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would lay it down nicely...and tell him that i don't like him...but we still can be friends! ...If he's the kind of guy that keeps trying...then tell him nice but FIRMLY that you guys won't work out together...
Hope I could helpâ¥
2007-09-05 02:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋