I have a friend who I'm thinking about leaving alone; she rubs me the wrong way sometimes. We live in different states now but keep in touch. I know it's not a big deal but it's the concept that makes me mad. 1st, she started dodging me after finding out I was moving out of state and am not looking for a bf/gf relationship. I'ts okay if she did'nt wanna hang out, but should've been more considerate and respectful than that. She usually agreed to hang out with me, then said she'll call back in a little bit, but never actually called. When I fronted her about that, her excuse was, "Sorry babe." I'm a busy person." Let's be real folks; nobody is that busy. She even stood me up a few times and did'nt even call to let me know that she could not make it. She also p'd me off when she left me on hold 1 night. I was upset cuz she did'nt apologize until I called her out on it the next day. Do you people think I'm over reacting or do you think she's being rude. Only respectfull opinions please.
2007-09-04 19:10:51 · 7 answers · asked by Go Broncos! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
million people,million characters,but yes she is one of those who don't care about others feelings.You are right,no one is so busy and can't make a call to notify you he will stood you up.It doesn't have to mean she do that to hurt you.she is just unresponsible friend.I think you should make serious conversation about her attitude,and explain her once again how you feel about that,and what that attitude can make you to do.Anyway,she will be on lost.not you.I wonder how she will deal with that,loosing you as a friend
2007-09-04 19:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by Vanya D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is being very rude and I think she is just playing hard to get or she just wants a man she can mess around with all the time. And since you obviously dont want to be in a relationship right now she is ignoring you cause thats not what she wanted and you are giving her the opposite.
2007-09-12 21:02:53 · answer #2 · answered by Southern Cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a couple of days ago i would ahve said that you should just cut her off but after experiencing something like that recently im here to advise you that you need to be patient.... if you guys were close before she knew you were leaving then pretty much things are too much for her to handle.... she doesnt want to deal with the fact of losing you so this is the easiest way to cope... you need to corner her and have a heart to heart
2007-09-05 02:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is being rude no one would treat a true friend like that shes more of an ememy. so i would just blow her off and find another good friedn someone that is a friend.
2007-09-13 00:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is trying to avoid you, by being in kinda unpolished way. i will say not rude, but attitude problem.
2007-09-05 02:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you go to her, to complain or whatever, she is in control.
when she puts you on hold, hang up. when she doesnt show up, go do something else.
and date her sister.
2007-09-05 02:19:39 · answer #6 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be relax and think
2007-09-05 02:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by K. paul K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋