Will some one help me?

Question

I have a boyfriend.
But He always says stupid stuff.
and he thinks im cheating on him.
we get along really well.
and our personallites are exactly the same.
but how can i convince him im not cheating on him.
and hopw do i make him stop sayin stoopid stuff?

I WASNT serious. lol. wow. but thanks for the awnsers.

Answer 1

most people who blame another for cheating...well they are doing it themselves...not that i am saying he is...and you never specified what kind of stupid stuff he says...if you did then i can attempt to help...other than that people can say what they want to say...

Answer 2

["I have a boyfriend.
But He always says stupid stuff.
and he thinks im cheating on him.
we get along really well."]

Have you given him a reason to think that you are cheating on him or has he had a bad experience in the past?

["how can i convince him im not cheating on him. and hopw do i make him stop sayin stoopid stuff"]--
You cannot convince him but you can attempt to reassure him. If he has had a bad experience in the past, tell him that you are not that person and that you are committed to him and making the relationship work. Tell him that his accusations are hurtful and ask him to stop saying such things. Give it sometime and if he does not make an effort to move beyond HIS issues. . .MOVE ON!

Being with an insecure man with a low self-esteem and issues with trust and jealously is a recipe for disaster. If he cannot treat you as an individual and take you at your word, you don't need to be with him. Continuing on in a relationship that requires you to constantly reassure someone else will make you miserable--especially when your need for validation and trust are left unmet. Good luck!

Answer 3

Thats a ***** if He thinks ur cheating He's either the jealous type or He's insecure or unsure of how much you love him, But as for the stupid stuff that will probably clear up as soon as u take care of his jealousy or W/E it is, Just try telling him that you love him for who he is and you wouldn't cheat on him talk to him more often or just a little affection until Hes secure or confdent that you're not cheating on him but if hes the jealous type tell him he's paranoid.Love isn't always heard until it's said no matter how strong it is.

Answer 4

Usually jealous people are such because either 1) they are very insecure or 2) they attribute their own values to you... meaning, if he gets jealous if you go to a party with friends and wants to know about every guy you talked to and why you didn't call him till the next morning... it's probably because he knows that if he goes to a party with friends and doesn't end up calling you til the next morning - its because he was trying or successfully hooked up. He believes that you are potentially doing what he would do in similar situations... which probably means he's a douche bag - so get rid of him.

And... if you speak like you write... I wouldn't worry about him saying stupid stuff at this point.

Answer 5

Ask him what makes him think that u r a cheater. It is hard to tell a shooter how it feels when one gets shot. But theres a way. Try his own technique on him. U also do stupid staffs to him that he does to u. I hope that would make him realise how u feel when he does stupid things. N to take him away from the misunderstanding, do sth or remind him of sth u did that shows ur true love. I hope although u couldnt express ur love by ur emosions, try it by logics. Good luck.

Answer 6

sit down and talk to him
tell him that he's the only guy in your life and give him reasons why he's the only guy in your life
tell him that you would appreciate it if he would stop saying stupid stuff (be sure to have examples of those stupid phrases to anticipate a "like what?" question from him)

and tell him that you don't want to lose him and because you get along really well, you believe that the two of you can work out any problems and be together

Answer 7

He says stupid stuff and does not trust you, but you consider this a good relationship? TRUST is ESSENTIAL in ANY relationship - without it, you aren't even good friends!

Instead of trying to CHANGE him, change the way you REACT to the things he does that bother you. Either IGNORE it completely, OR, tell him that you just cannot tolerate it anymore and he needs to go. He will either STOP acting stupid because it does not affect you, OR, he will leave.

Answer 8

All boyfriends say stupid stuff i dont think there is anwser to making that stop lol but as of cheating you can try to talk to him about your feelings and the fact that you dont want to be with any one else and after so long if he still acuses you of cheating leave his sorry *** lol you shouldnt have to deal with being accused all the time plus most that acuse others of cheating are usually doing it them selves or want to

Answer 9

Tell him that if he really cares for you he will know that you are being faithful to him. Tell him that you appreciate his care and concern that he is the only one for you but if he cannot trust you then maybe you do not have the close and special relationship that you thought you had and ...let him think about that for a while and he should come to his senses...good luck and email me if you need further assistance

Answer 10

I had a guy like that once and I told him he was driving me crazy with his insanity and the next time he accused me of cheating on him............I was going to. Now shut up with the stupid stuff! Either man up, have a little confidence, or we're through. It worked.
Good Luck

Answer 11

Tell him it's offensive to you that he thinks like that.Tell him you have very high qualiteis as a woman and if you wanted someone else,you would beake up with himthe first.Tall him the whole thing is very unpleasant,it makes you uncomfortable and you are starting to get tired of it.If he wants to be with you,he has to stop.