I like girls that have morals and dont sleep around...so it always saddens me when i like a girl and i hear or see pictures on facebook of her doing disgusting thigs like drinking herself to death, taking drugs and going around with guys...but i like this particular girl and i cant tell if she gets around...what are the signs, and how can i tell?
2007-09-04 16:39:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
foxy lady....the definition of a ho is a girl or a GUY who sleep around...I dont respect people who sleep around..my uncle does it..and i just think it is so wrong. Hes 48 and having sex with 20 year old women..i mean..thats just plain old disrespectful
2007-09-05 03:08:26 · update #1
well if she has ALOT of close male Friends and is very flirty and is quick to give is up that is one way . take her out on a few dates and see how she is if she gets around you would know . but if she dont give out too many signs start to tell her about things in your pass . she how much she drinks and about if she can take some really strong drinks then she Had's been drinking alot or for a Long time also .see about her pass relationship's & how many and how long she was in them and see if she cheated on any of them once she has a few drinks in her she should but easy to talk to about that kinda stuff
2007-09-04 16:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ tweety ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am really tired of people just thinking a girl that sleeps around is a ho and guys that do the same thing are normal.
A girl that is very sexually active and seems to be a ho has probably been through more crap then you could ever imagine being in.these girls don't have self respect because no one has ever shown them respect .they need the most love they just look for it in a touch kind of a way. because of the pain they feel inside. stop looking on outward appearance all those girls that are all crazy and put on that crazy attitude that I don't care. really care the most . It should not matter how many guys she has been with.Love looks past anything.pride will just get you nothing.why not find a girl that needs love and give her the world rather then be so stuck up and wait for some other girl that is stuck up. not that you are stuck up but I think people need to stop only looking on the outward appearance .Make sure who ever you get with is your best friend not just someone that looks like they have it all together.good luck
2007-09-04 16:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by foxy lady 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly I am the same way, well with guys I think its just grose to mess around, anyways the way this came up with me and my boyfriend of now 3 years was a simple friendly conversation starting with "do you like being in a relationship or the single life" thats a way you can sorta figure out what she is like. Then as you get to know eachother better have conversations about deeper things and as you begin to trust eachother more will come out on its own. Remember a girl who doesn't respect her body wont respect you.
2016-05-17 05:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Even if you ask her she is only going to tell you what you want to hear, so what's the point? Just make sure that you take your time and get to know her before you get intimate. That way you can get a better understanding of her personality and the type of person that she may be. You can only cover it up for so long. You meet a lot of her friends and family which, you'd be surprised at how much you could find out just watching her hand out. If, after so long, you still can't tell then maybe she's a keeper. That's not to say she's just so innocent, but then I'm sure you're not either. Nobody is perfect.
2007-09-04 16:47:56 · answer #4 · answered by Christine H 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
asking her directly is a good idea, but it won't necessarily get you the truth.
if you are looking for girls that have morals, it's likely you won't find them on myspace or facebook. sorry.
the only way to know someone is to learn about them in person. even then, it may not work.
i didn't know one guy i was seeing was a drug addict. because i didn't know what to look for. and drug addicts learn to lie very well. so you have to educate yourself.
one time i stopped in at a friends house and her teenage daughter and her friends were at the computer. they were chatting and made up a person, hair color, height and personna...they took it as a joke..i didn't think it was very nice but i learned that most people online are just "having fun", not taking it seriously and i'm not sure you should take it seriously.
being involved in real life is much better. you learn how to discern between truth and falsehood. hopefully.
good luck.
2007-09-04 16:53:58 · answer #5 · answered by shyanne 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can tell if she is loose or not. Just get her into a conversation without being too open or upfront. Ask her about her previous relationships. Maybe start by telling her a little bit, not much, about you and your relationship/girl experiences. Then see if she seems "freaky". YOu can tell. If she is extremely open with you fast, you know the rest. I don't mean open about her relationships, I mean open with her "activities" with the men she speaks of.
If she is forward with you and touching you in places she ought not to until the time is right...then you know.
Best thing is conversation. YOU can tell without looking on facebook. YOU are smart and intelligent.
GO that route first. Listen. That is so hard for society these days. Listen...not hear...LISTEN..to her conversation, her interests, her goals, etc....YOU will know.
Thanks and have a fantastic day and life!
2007-09-04 16:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by L B 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is hard to tell if a girl is promiscuous. It is something that nobody is proud about and therefore, just keeps it to herself. But if you can wait and stick around for a reasonable period of time, you will eventually know her as a person. Never rely on what other people will tell you. Most of the time, they are wrong.
2007-09-04 16:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by Belen 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
LOL No one on this earth is perfect. Whoever you are you are going to have likes and dislikes about everyone. Just think that particular girl might be feeling the same way about you. Only one advice don't listen to rumors that's why they are called RUMORS! There are vindictive people out there, and they only want to cause trouble. Be yourself, be open and honest...
2007-09-04 16:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by htpanther 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If and When the time is right, and you're ready to invest yourself in a relationship with her, you'll be able to ask her if she's currently sexually active and how many sexual partners she's been with. Until then, why not just see if there's a connection rather than worrying yourself about that?
2007-09-04 16:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
if she sleeping with many guys she would know a lot about sex ! if u wanna know what is her type to be close with her ! i think send her a guy to flirt with her ! and if she replays in nasty way shes maybe playing around ! but that depend for the girl type
2007-09-04 16:48:15 · answer #10 · answered by pearl 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋