i live with my mother who is rude and makes me feel unwelcome. she is pregnet and has a boyfriend and he also makes me feel unwelcome. they fight all the time and that leads to aguments between myself and everyone else
2007-09-04 15:43:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Whatever you do, don't run away. Speak with someone you trust -- your doctor, minister, teacher, best friend. Find a safe place to stay. Sometimes our families are not good places for us, mentally or physically. Good luck. Stay safe.
2007-09-04 15:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by Beach Saint 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One piece of important information is missing___________
How old are you???
Your situation does sound distressing. It is difficult to realize the reasoning of a parent who would neglect their commitment to their own child. You deserve a stable, loving, secure home.
If you are under 17 or 18 one of the following would be your choices:
Grandparent, or Aunt & Uncle's house,
House of family friend, or
with one of your school friends (with their parent's permission)
If you feel that you are in danger, or that there is drug or alcohol abuse in the home, and they are not capable of caring for you properly / or that you would be a "run-away"
then you may want to contact Human / Social Services Child Protection to see if you would qualify to live in a foster home (where the government pays your living expenses and medical/dental) There are some very caring families that are ready and willing to have an extra kid or two live in their home.
My understanding is that there are training possibilities available to foster kids to learn to be self-supporting / emancepated as they turn 18. There may also be some college scholarship money available.
If you are already 18, you may still want to rent a room from a family or friend, while you work to support yourself and hopefully take a few college or trade-school classes too.
2007-09-04 15:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a couple of things I would like to know before I answer:
1) How old are you?
2) What are your housing options?
If you are over 18 y.o. and have the financial wherewithal to out or under 18 with the option of moving in with your father you may be in a position to move.
2007-09-04 15:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by Chip M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are of legal age to do so, then you shouldn't be in the house to start with. If you are an adult (18 or more) then you need to go on your own for sure. If you are underage, you need to find a stable family to live with. No moving out with someone your own age, runaway or any of that.
2007-09-04 15:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by CB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
If you feel you can cope with the pay of rent and food and bills..
As well as finishing school if you haven't.
If you only have a year or 2 of school - i'd say wait it out.
Get a job, save up some money - and as soon as you finish education - then yeah - GO.
But don't let them ruin your chances of a better life by not finishing school
2007-09-04 15:48:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your mother isnt too happy is she?
geez. if you are old enough and have the means you should leave. you will never regret it if you do this without a fight. after the plans have been made just tell her you are doing this for everyones good. and then go.
the future will bring more happiness and in time your mother will understand. be the mature one.
2007-09-04 15:51:41 · answer #6 · answered by larnsue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I felt uncomfortable, I would probally leave. Are you financially able to move? Do you have a place to move to? Are you old enough to move out on your own? If you are then make a plan to go. Life is too short for all the drama.
2007-09-04 16:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by darlene z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off how old are you ? If your 18 and can afford to get out on your own then yes I would get out of the situation, If your a minor then see if you can stay with your father or another relative.
2007-09-04 15:50:05 · answer #8 · answered by Bingo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question indicates that you are feeling that it's time to move out.
Follow what you are inspired to do that is best for YOU...
... and don't worry about what anyone thinks about it.
Be FREE from bullsh*t and live a Life of JOY and FUN and make choices that ONLY MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD.
2007-09-04 15:52:56 · answer #9 · answered by PG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you need to ask yourself where you would go. How old are you? If you are adult, then by all means, leave. If not, hang in there and avoid confrontation as much as possbile. Enjoy the good things in your life. I'm sorry they are so rude, sweetie.
2007-09-04 15:49:30 · answer #10 · answered by red 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋